Why does the relationship last longer when the man is the provider? (Page 2)
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Men are usually the breadwinners. It's not something I'm not proud to say but this is the reality. There are some relationships where things are more equal like if both have the same profession, but a lot of times you have the man having a very high career status versus a much lower status partner.
Although I don't agree with men being the providers nowadays, especially in these days of equality (in western society at least) it's a fact that MOST females are attracted to dominant traits. Taller, stronger, bigger, older, being able to provide for them and potential kids, etc. That will never change. It's biologically inherent.
Well how many relationships are there where the woman is the provider?
I think most of the time it's either the man that provides or if they both work then the man takes home more money.
Even if a woman brings in good income she still prefers a man that makes more than her.
A lot of that depends on the expectations of the people in the relationship. A relationship can last just fine with the woman as the provider, but it requires that she not resent him for it being that way and that he's not insecure about her being the provider. It always goes back to communication bring key. Literally any relationship can last a life time if there is full communication between both people and they both accept that as time passes, their partner will change in various ways.
Because women are not developed to operate the way feminism has tried to and successfully convinced them they are. Women are not providers. There’s also don’t have very good self discipline and at the end of the day women are proficient where men are not just as men are proficient where women are not.
Because there is more mutual respect. The woman also has to earn the relationship in ways men find more appealing such as through nicer personality and doing the caretaking activities instead of "buying" it off via a paycheck. The woman also feels safer and more protected and less stressed. And she also has an incentive to be a good girlfriend because she doesn't want to cheat or something which would put her out on the street. So yeah all around it makes relationships more stable.
Unconditionality pours in when he is the provider.
Historically its the male who provides love and care rest in females hand.
Love is more heavy a concept and flows from within effortlessly and you cannot control to make it stay too
Once he doesn't feel any movement or is unsatisfied for a long time that evades and girls start to feel he doesn't loves me anymore.
That can't be true all of the time. If he's the provider, there's more at stake for him to make sure his family is taken care of and healthy. He has a deeper investment into the well-being of his family.
it's just the natural flow of things. one stat i read showed that religious families have a much hire success. look at this post: https://www.goldbergjones-wa.com/divorce/divorce-by-generation/
Probably because women don't get much out of a relationship. Hence, it would work if she's submissive and obedient but not if she's strong and independent. If she's the provider, there's nothing for her in a relationship. If she's not, she's needy enough to have to stay in the relationship.
This made me think. What do women LOSE from a relationship?
Wtf women are insane. Pathetic. God are all women so pathetic? Ridiculous. Then don't go into relationships you little worthless cunts.
@VanillaSalt Is this question for me or for women in general?
I wanna know. Because in regards to marriage. Men lose all power. The relationship prior to marriage compared to after is the exact same except now the law is completely against men. When I think how easy it is for women to ruin men many times with lies and no consequence... I question if women are worth the effort.
But I’ve never before considered what women lose when they choose monogamy... so perhaps you can enlighten me what you lose. And what you gain be nice too.
@VanillaSalt Marriage isn't good for women.
Didn’t see an answer to my question. Let me rephrase it. Is there any benefit to marriage compared to a relationship for women? What’s lost by getting married again compared to a ltr.
Do they? I've never seen any stats.
It seems weird. Do guys have fragile egos or something? I don't know.
Why are you assuming it's not the women who have a problem with it? Guess what it's the females issue, they don't respect men who don't provide. Women fill for divorce in most cases.
I think it should be equal but some men like to be the only provider. As long as they are both happy with what ever situation the relationship will last
Because it’s unnatural for a woman to provide as it’s not how God created her. Naturally she will find dissatisfaction in having to do this.
Because women are usually more satisfied with their man when he is providing for them and they can lean on him and a man is usually more satisfied when he feels like a woman relies on him.
It lasts shorter because of financial problems. Few families can survive on one income nowadays. Studies have proven that financially stable couples tend to divorce less
Not true. If the female is the provider, it last longer and has a better connection.
Men having the control and telling you how life should be, tears everything apart.
So untrue. Who lied to you?
The ones I provided for. I didn't mean to imply ALL men.
You implied many things that were both untrue and disgusting.
Yeah sorry you are wrong.
Because they get financially dependent on them, thus they are unable to leave, especially if they have kids together.
Ah women aren't allowed to go get a job now. Hahahah
I am talking about households that the man is the provider. Did you read the question?
It's easier to leave relationship when you can provide for yourself. Lots of women and men stay in abusive relationships simply because they don't to work and provide for themselves.
Because it's only natural that men feels the satisfaction and appreciation when they provide amd girls being the supportive ones. Also because we have been doing that for millions of years
long relationships should last from both partners because at some point in your life if you can't do something for her or whatever the thing is and she start getting mad do this do that not here, there etc its like she's using you