Boyfriend keeps asking me for money because no one else will help him. I've helped so much and he's still asking for money. What do I do? (Page 2)

[The_Maphio]

I'm sensing an advantage taker, here. Do you even know what the money is for? Does he gets defensive if you ask?
Depending on the answers to those questions, you might be used.

[Levin]

I think err, kick his arse to the curb, and unfortunately, probably realistically, say good bye to the money you have already given.

Whatever you give him you will never get back.

[Comesaveme]

Leave ASAP. My ex in 2019 was like this, just lazy and pathetic. I thought I was being nice but he used me and cheated and then acted like I never gave him anything.

[Biancam13]

Yeah that’s a problem. He’ll never learn financial independence if he just keeps borrowing money from you. I assume you’re not the only one he’s borrowing money off of?

[exitseven]

How come he doesn't have his own money? What does he do with the money you give him? Where can I get a girlfriend that I can use for an ATM machine?

[Ninani]

You stop feeding his addiction. Giving him money keeps him from getting better.

[Andres77]

Just stop.
You're enabling and encouraging him.
It's like welfare.
If you don't have to look for a job and you still get free money then why even think about working?
If he's going to get money then why should he stop asking?

[bowenw]

Ask him to replay everything he owes then find a new boyfriend. If he has no money take something of value when you leave him and return it after he pays.

[rachel776]

tell him you can either be his girlfriend or help with money. if he chooses money, give him $1,000 or something and then get away

[CentralPerk77]

You gotta cut the cord. Sorry to say that … that’s bs and I assume, by your age, he’s very much old enough to earn his own way in life

[Mercury39]

Tell him how u feel and see how he reacts, if not then dump the guy

[Sarahnah]

Leave him. He's gonna keep asking for money and taking it for granted without paying you back. If you marry him he's gonna be a deadbeat.

[pleasestopthis]

I know people say ghosting is cruel and coward but in these cases I think it's justified. Or just be upfront and tell him to GTFO. He's just taking advantage of you.

[weysally]

disappear yourself from this, cut your losses and run

[Adam1978]

Stop enabling his bad habits that cause him to not have his own money.

[Anonymous]

Just be honest with him. If he reacts kindly to whatever you decided to tell him. He’s a good person. If he reacts poorly. Then you are better off without him

[chrissykerdock]

give him your money but understand you won't get any of it back

[slatyb]

You stop giving him money. Maybe you stop seeing him.

[Prettygurl12]

Next time he asks give him Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University so he can get his shit together.

[kkirk4442]

You stop lending him money, because he is using you, and is not being responsible.