If your partner broke up with you for someone else and decided they made a mistake and wanted you back would you go back? (Page 3)

[Lliam]

I don't think I could. No. At that point, I might be willing to use her for a cum dump until I found someone else, but I would never be able to think of her as a potential partner.

[Eelephant]

Nope. If they they were okay with leaving me once for someone else, then I know that they weren't it it for me anyways and they're likely to do it again.

[GoldenTulip]

No! Once gone there is no going back. Sorry but you lost me...

[lanadelrey25]

I refuse to be someone's second choice.

[coachTanthony]

Exactly.

[MyNameJames]

I would argue that in this situation you'd still be the first and technically third choice. As the other person is really the second choice. This situation only arose from serious confusion about what your partner wants, once they return from that second choice person unsatisfied and realize that you're who they really want. Nothing has actually changed, things have remained the same if not improved for you both despite the extra steps that led to the end result. (Assuming you would take them back of course)

[lanadelrey25]

@MyNameJames Maybe. But the fact still stands, they thought they'd be more satisfied with someone else, realized they were wrong and want to come back after toying with my emotions. Hell no.

[MyNameJames]

You aren't unjustified in being unsettled by that scenario, infact I really get it. I'm just playing devil's advocate because some people might not be as unsettled by this as you.

[FilmGuy93]

Probably not... there would have to be some factually relevant reason for us to get back together. Like we have kids together and it turned out that she was getting manipulated by her boss or something.

[SewerDemon]

It depends, if I really loved them then yes but if they were just a nuisance to me then I would chase them away with my cat

[thismakessense1235]

no i wouldn't go back because they already broke my heart. and if i did go back and i did say yes, they would just break me again.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Nope. If they had enough doubts about our relationship to leave, then they didn't make a mistake. I'm don't want anyone who has any doubt that I am who they want

[Guanfei]

Nope, I'm not a spare tire, you wanted to fuck the other guy? Go, you're dead to me

[AvatarTK]

Well, you could test them to see if they really want you back. Or just don't go back the past is the past, stay in the present

[Tiaani]

No I wouldn't go back to someone who didn't realise how good I was in the first place it would be time to find someone better

[JesseJayNeak]

No, trust is everything. If she broke up with me for someone else, then that means she never loved me in the first place

[andreasderjuengere]

Some people seem to handle their lives like a garage sales activity :D
For myself, I consider my decisions carefully enough, so that later they don't need to be re-scheduled.

[Drumlin2001]

No. It would be hard cause not being with OH means not seeing my kids everyday, but i would have to move on and find the best way to co-parent that we could

[jerdanro]

Nope. I wouldn't trust her not to do the same thing the next time she met someone "better"

[Nazgol]

No, I wouldn't. They made their choice& thats it. No going back now

[Anonymous]

I would. But only to bang her for a few weeks and then dump her for someone else.

[kidvid80]

no, their mistake. live with your choice as i move on

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I wouldn't take them back, no. They broke up with me for a reason.

[Texasguy99]

Probably not. If they left once they’d most likely be willing to again