If you're not ready to be hurt then you're not ready for a relationship, agree or disagree? (Page 2)
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"Not ready for a relationship" not true
As a good relationship with the right person with not hurt.
Not ready to look for the right one, yes. Looking for the right one you will get hurt and sometimes it will really hurt. But when you find the right one it will all be worth it.
Life is full of ups and downs. There are no areas where it's just rainbows and Unicorns. Relationships are no different. You have to talk to each other and work things out when everything is going bad
Part of being in love and intimate is opening yourself up to the possibility of being hurt. Most people don't enter into a romantic relationship with the intention of hurting your partner..
Love hurts weather its good or bad. It doesn't matter if your a lover or a fighter.
Hope for the best, expect nothing. Put in the work, but if you go in thinking "this won't work out", you're going to subconsciously make it not work out. What's better is to go in with no expectations. However, we're humans. We're not good at that. Feel what you need to feel, feel what your brain is telling you, and decide how to move forwards based on that.
True I'm ready for both i have never had a relationship
So the leading poll indicates people go into a relationship expecting to get hurt, how's that bode? They have a term for that, it's called being a masochist..
I agree because all guys will hurt you they have no respect for themselves so they have no respect for you either. Like when the guys look at others or when they really don't show you they love you or when they say I am done but they come back because they using you so really guys just really just want to get them what they need that all
No matter what chances we take, I believe unless we give a relationship a chance we won't even know if we're going to be hurt, so this got me puzzled, I guess I need to
stop putting walls up and give a girl/woman a chance at a relationship
Pain is part of life. You need to know how to handle it yourself before a relationship.
All love results in pain but the alternative is worse.
I don't think anything good in life happens without being willing to take a risk that it might go wrong.
More like if you aren't willing to be hurt then yes you probably aren't ready.
you must be brave and get over it...
says a guy who didn't.. lol
Sure. Kinda like the Vegas axiom: can’t afford to lose, don’t play the game.
It should not be like that. Rejection is part of selection process.
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I know it sounds more realistic. Covering your bases if you will. I thought the same way when I was your age. Trust me on this. As you get more experience judging character, you'll feel more confident.
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Love comes even when you're not ready for it. So does pain.
I don't think a healthy and good relationship should hurt. The point is that in all respects there can be conflicts between partners, but they can be resolved in a calm and peaceful way
Love can't be painful but if you can wait it out it can be bliss.
There's no "ready" to hurt because nobody expects or wants to be hurt and is never 'ready". I would change that to say if you are hurting though, you are definitely not ready for a new one.