Love doesn’t exist for romantic couples.. hormonal chemicals are what compels us to procreate and seek out the opposite sex.
Genuine love is the type of love you share with your parents or the special bond you share with your child. Unconditional love just doesn’t really exist outside of your birth family. Couples get into one argument and contemplate divorce.
You can have an argument with family and you’ll most likely brush it off the next day.
yes sometime but I hate my self and my past. it easyer not to look I have a better time geting girls when I do not look and I pick the wrong ones. I keep wanting to be perfect. the girls I over look are not that bad at all. sometime I want to destroy what I have bc I feel like I do not deserve it.
I'm just terrified to A. Get accused of false accusations of rape, B. Be accused of abuse, C. Be abused, D. End up unhappy, E. End up making someone feel uncomfortable, F. Fucking up and ruining it for myself, G. Being incompitent and making everyone, H. End up in a toxicnrelationship, I. End up an accidental father, J. End up a DIVORCED father, K. Lose all my posessions due to this, or L. End up falling for someone who doesn't fall for me.
I did until my wife found me and loved me through my major issues instead of taking advantage of me and judging me. She loved me in spite of my faults and wanted me to be better, not by her standards but by the standard of kindness, that any interaction should leave us both in a better place... objectively, not defined by emotional whim. So Grateful...
. No one person can make you happy, so stop looking for love. Search for personal love of yourself first, and once you are happy with you, you can find someone happy with themself, then you can both be happy together
Yeah like on Christian mingle’s but I’m talking about like social media and GAG. What is it exactly that you do a relationship coach? You give them advice and they pay you online for your wisdom? That would be something that I would be interested in
Not even close. People who do online dating usually don't do it well. All I do is review their profile and make changes as necessary. Then they get quality matches. That's it. I am not a relationship guru. LOL
No, I wish experienced love for real but instead of I followed nonsense talking fools. I wish I met someone smart and very nice - at least good looking, someone with the same interests. So now I’m not looking but trying to forget the bad memories.
Sometimes I do when things don’t work out with a guy I really like. Having said that, I remember all the people around me I’m happy relationships and I think to myself - if it’s happened for them it’ll happen for me.
I guess when I was searching for love I did feel that way because I just wanted to be in a relationship already and get the "hard" stuff of trying to find the one out of the way.
When I was 50, I met a girl and we just clicked. Thing was she was only 21. At the time she told me she was 22 and later told me the truth and that she said she was 22 because she thought that if she said she was only 21 I would think she was too young. That is one of the cutest things I have ever heard.
22 is so young that you have barely started life. You will have many opportunities for love. You have nothing to worry about. Life is for enjoyment, not worry, especially at your young age. Go out and enjoy it. Do not worry about this... trust me. Love will find you when you least expect it. If you try to hard and worry about it it never happens.
No. Because I'm not 5 and I know " love" is just chemicals in your brain. Some people are blessed with beauty and this makes them valued Some people are incredibly nice and caring and this makes them to a lesser extent valued. But when you come right down to it your trading whatever currency ( beauty and caring) you have for love. And the person you're with is most likely looking for a better deal the whole time they're telling you they love you. Sorry it's just reality.
Once I hit my 30s I realized it was too late for a family so I called it quits and stopped dating. It was never any fun for me , just a wast of time and money to be made to feel like crap.
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Love doesn’t exist for romantic couples.. hormonal chemicals are what compels us to procreate and seek out the opposite sex.
Genuine love is the type of love you share with your parents or the special bond you share with your child. Unconditional love just doesn’t really exist outside of your birth family. Couples get into one argument and contemplate divorce.
You can have an argument with family and you’ll most likely brush it off the next day.
Uhhh I have not talked to my dad for over 10 years and there is a cousin that has stolen from me that I would kill if it was legal.
I don't care if you are related to me, I care how you treat me. How you treat me is how I am going to judge you.
@Juxtapose Sooo do you not have a mom?
@Juxtapose I didn’t say anything about the way someone is treated, but the family bound.
@Juxtapose *bond
I do have a mom but I love her because she has treated me well.
My best friend's mom? If my mom was like his, I would despise her.
@Juxtapose Well there ya go.
Yeah, I'll be 76 come July 7th. It's pretty much hopeless.
Maybe but you living this long is incredible as it is. I'll take that longevity.
Then you'd enjoy my Mom. She's 104.
Ha Ha Ha
One thing I've noticed over the years is that learned helplessness is frowned upon in men more than women
Well men are supposed to be a rock in a woman's life so that is true.
yes sometime but I hate my self and my past. it easyer not to look I have a better time geting girls when I do not look and I pick the wrong ones. I keep wanting to be perfect. the girls I over look are not that bad at all. sometime I want to destroy what I have bc I feel like I do not deserve it.
No I could find love if I wanted to, I feel hopeless in my tendencies to be stuck in the past though, so "love" is scary to think about right now. 😅
Sometimes it seems so.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/FAyDmJvjxbgI'm just terrified to A. Get accused of false accusations of rape, B. Be accused of abuse, C. Be abused, D. End up unhappy, E. End up making someone feel uncomfortable, F. Fucking up and ruining it for myself, G. Being incompitent and making everyone, H. End up in a toxicnrelationship, I. End up an accidental father, J. End up a DIVORCED father, K. Lose all my posessions due to this, or L. End up falling for someone who doesn't fall for me.
I did until my wife found me and loved me through my major issues instead of taking advantage of me and judging me.
She loved me in spite of my faults and wanted me to be better, not by her standards but by the standard of kindness, that any interaction should leave us both in a better place... objectively, not defined by emotional whim.
So Grateful...
. No one person can make you happy, so stop looking for love. Search for personal love of yourself first, and once you are happy with you, you can find someone happy with themself, then you can both be happy together
Not looking.
Plenty of time for that after graduating
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No. I give out Love, the recepients are my Followers.
Real men dont look for Love.
Who are your followers?
Followers or as some call them, orbiters. Theyve come naturaly from victory
Ok cool man.
Well I’ts llcertainly not gonna happen on a computer
Many of my clients have found loving relationships through dating apps so it is possible.
Yeah like on Christian mingle’s but I’m talking about like social media and GAG. What is it exactly that you do a relationship coach? You give them advice and they pay you online for your wisdom? That would be something that I would be interested in
Not even close. People who do online dating usually don't do it well. All I do is review their profile and make changes as necessary. Then they get quality matches. That's it. I am not a relationship guru. LOL
You do it for free
Of course not. I charge 97 bucks per profile review.
Interesting
No, I wish experienced love for real but instead of I followed nonsense talking fools. I wish I met someone smart and very nice - at least good looking, someone with the same interests. So now I’m not looking but trying to forget the bad memories.
I'm just tired of trying. Tired or trying to find love, tired of trying to be a better person, tired of trying to make sense of it all.
I think I'm just going to cruise for a while, like the guy at work who is retiring in six months and doesn't give a shit about anything.
Sometimes I do when things don’t work out with a guy I really like. Having said that, I remember all the people around me I’m happy relationships and I think to myself - if it’s happened for them it’ll happen for me.
I guess when I was searching for love I did feel that way because I just wanted to be in a relationship already and get the "hard" stuff of trying to find the one out of the way.
I found someone so it's not hopeless anymore.
Unfortunately yes. I just cannot seem to find my match who understands me, we click and have a great chemistry.
I envy the people who have that. :|
Time and patience. You are young.
@RingOfFire I'm just worried it will never happen. Also, I'm 22 in few weeks. Youth is leaving me :(
Ill be 23 this year and i haven't found the one either @Jemini_Crocket
When I was 50, I met a girl and we just clicked. Thing was she was only 21. At the time she told me she was 22 and later told me the truth and that she said she was 22 because she thought that if she said she was only 21 I would think she was too young. That is one of the cutest things I have ever heard.
22 is so young that you have barely started life. You will have many opportunities for love. You have nothing to worry about. Life is for enjoyment, not worry, especially at your young age. Go out and enjoy it. Do not worry about this... trust me. Love will find you when you least expect it. If you try to hard and worry about it it never happens.
PS: 23 is also extremely young. Be patient. It will happen.
I do because I'm afraid because I have a hearing loss & they would run
If they run they run. That just means that person isn't for you. Everyone has issues in their life. We all have to play the hand we been dealt.
No. Because I'm not 5 and I know " love" is just chemicals in your brain.
Some people are blessed with beauty and this makes them valued
Some people are incredibly nice and caring and this makes them to a lesser extent valued.
But when you come right down to it your trading whatever currency ( beauty and caring) you have for love. And the person you're with is most likely looking for a better deal the whole time they're telling you they love you.
Sorry it's just reality.
Once I hit my 30s I realized it was too late for a family so I called it quits and stopped dating. It was never any fun for me , just a wast of time and money to be made to feel like crap.
Dang, bro.