Is it me or could it be him or... Could it be both. My friends with benefits turns down my sex offers at times, when it's giving to him?

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So my past friends with benefits is back now, my current friends with benefits again. But this time is a little different like, meaning. He doesn't, come to me about sex often. Or when I am being a little bit too flirtatious and wanna talk dirty with him. He'll past by and respond to something, I said before that. But I notice if I am sending him a video of something a bit naughty, he sends me a purple heart. I mean, I did most recently tell him about my significant other. But I also said, how me and this other guy was in a open relationship though. So we are still able to do sexual things with others outside the relationship. And it seems, that may have through him off a bit. And I tell him all the times, that we can still do it, and he said that he was down with it. Or cool with it, if I was and he is too. And lately, I kinda been asking or trying to make it noticeable, that I want his wood inside me. Lol. But he tends to give me the run around, but said, and mention to me. That he is physically attracted me. So I'm like- well come on papi. You was wanting me before, what change. πŸ€”. But I did some calculations. And I definitely do feel and think that there is someone else. So I guess the question is: is he tired or bored with having sex with me. Or is it because of this other girl or both. Or maybe is it because she's a lot closer, or is it also because I mentioned to him about the other guy and my open relationship with him?
Is it me or could it be him or... Could it be both. My friends with benefits turns down my sex offers at times, when it's giving to him?
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