The reply is obvious.
Leave her because you will never be able to trust her. If she had the feeling that she needed to hide such an important issue from you, imagine what other things she does not tell you. How can you trust a person that is not yet married to you but that finds it okay to hide something of that importance.
It may not be physical cheating but can you be sure that she did not cheat emotionally with you by allowing a stranger to fill her mind with toxic words that could lead her to rethink your relation?
I would not hesitate to sever such a toxic relation because of lack of trust. Trust is the most important part of a long lasting relation.
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Both you and I know the answer. Dump her ass and run. She doesn’t deserve you. Do you really want to be with a person who you would never be able to trust? No. You deserve way better than her.
- u
You need to have a serious conversation with her that begins with the following phrase:
"Go fuck yourself, bitch!" If you feel like being more civil about the matter, you could say "Go fornicate with yourself, female dog!"
Can you possibly consider being with her the rest of your life? Next time she's tempted, she'll think to herself, "Why not? I got away with it the last time!"
What you do should depend on how you feel.
Do you love her?
Do you trust her?
Do you think she can be friends with guys without being emotionally or physically involved?
Do you want to meet this guy and try to make friends?
Do you want her to cut ties with this guy?
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Man, fuck that. You think she won't do that again if she feels like it? You're telling me if the situation were reversed, you could cover yourself with the "it's not cheating" shield? She would hit the roof. I would get that ring back and kick her to the curb. She doesn't even have an excuse? Even more insulting.
GIVE her to HIM. This is called an emotional affair. My guess is if they actually met up they had sex too. She's just denying that part.
I would find a woman that will remain in love and true to you, rather than investing herself into others. There's just no redeeming quality to that.
This is a woman that is bored with what you two have, she seeks out consoling from others. This isn't something reliable enough to base a marriage or LTR on.Dump her ass. She will eventually cheat with this guy if she hasn't already. Just imagine if you had been meeting with some chick, would she tolerate this?
If you marry her and she decides to start fucking this guy, YOU will be the one to pay for everything. You will end up buying her a house and car, so the new guy can fuck her every night, while you are in an apartment, working overtime to pay for it all.
Don't fucking risk your life on this Cunt.If you can answer this question honestly, you'll be able to work out yourself what to do..
Do you trust her implicitly? Yes or no?After reading all your replies I am just going to say that things you have seen are big red flags. Do you want to get married to get divorced one day & have half of your hard earned money taken away from you? You shouldn't trust words of people when they're doing things like that. Trust me some people are very good at acting
Dump her. She will cheat on you again if she hasn't already.
- m
this will not turn out well
LEAVE now , find another
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