Yes totally agree and there are just few rare people who realise their mistake and won't repeat it again
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If a person deceives me, it will be difficult for me to believe what he said again!
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Not exactly. If someone cheats when they are very young (teens) and sees the harm they have done, I think it is possible for them to resolve to never again cheat. If someone does it when they are in their 20's, I think they are more likely to be a repeat offender.
Cheat on me once, shame on you, cheat on me twice, shame on me
I would NOT forgive any man who cheats on me. It implies that :-
1. he does not respect me
2. he does not love me
I would dump his cheating ass. How can I trust him again? Once my trust is breeched, there is no going back. No amount of crying and apologies is going to fix it. He can ask for my forgiveness, and I will forgive him with time, but I would NEVER go back to him again. I'd be the dumbest fool in the world if I did. I would forgive him because holding grudges would only weigh me down. I'd rather forget about that piece of shit and move on with my life.People can change their ways... but at the same time, someone that's killed is probably more likely to kill again than someone that's refused such actions 100% completly right? That ability to cross a certain line is proven and practiced which simply makes it more likely.
If I was giving personal advice about it to another in person though, I'd put the focus on repeated practice in the past to be predictors of the future. Like if my bro tells me she's cheated on ex-husband, and multiple boyfriends... I'd probably be like dude, you're probably not going to be special. I'd also look at if they felt bad about it or justified it. If they justified it, it's already up to a 50% chance... repeated practice more % and so on.It's often true but not always true. It's risky to trust someone who has a history of not being trustworthy. In the end it boils down to their risk/reward calculations. If they truly value what they have with you they're not going to cheat. But it's impossible to know in advance what somebody really values or if their calculator is broken. You can only see as they build a history of behavior.
It would be irrelevant to me. If a girl cheats on me does anyone actually expect me to hang around and give her the chance to not cheat anymore? We are done. I don't care if she "stops".
If I find out a girl cheated in a previous relationship... I think I'd be out.I learned the hard way that people will always be cheaters once they start. After you do it, you won't truly stop. Now I have rule for dating: I don't date cheaters. If she's ever cheated, I immediately break things off. People don't change enough to stop doing something like that.
I guess it’s not true for everyone, but I personally wouldn’t date a person who has cheated in the past, especially more than once. I feel like I wouldn’t be able to trust them. I think people can change, but if you don’t know why it is that they cheated or understand it, I’d stay away.
People change all the time, life changes people some for the better others for the worse. People who realize what their doing and self reflect usually become better people however if I were cheated on I wouldn’t get back with her, we can be friends but that’s it
No. No relationships are the same which means that if one ends up cheating in one relationship, there is no way of telling if they will cheat in another, different realtionship. Assuming a former cheater would cheat in a new relationship would be assuming the worst from past experiences and that's pretty logical. Although assuming someone would cheat in a relationship, won't prevent them from cheating more than trusting that they won't.
With some.
Some may be faithful when together with some.
When it comes to it, it depends on what kind of rules each person have that they fallow in life.
Many doesn't change them.
In general people wants others to change not themselves. female's are a prime example of that before middle pose in general.No not true. I have cheated before but never will again. I have been cheated on before and didn't realize how damaging it was to me until I cheated and did some reflecting.
I am now a better person than I was when cheated and I will hold myself to that standard.
If someone gains your interest while you're in a relationship, there's something wrong or missing in that relationship. Fix it or end it.
End a relationship before pursuing another.My ex cheated on me, but interesting that she, adamantly denied it without ever being accused. In my divorce, I found out from one of her relatives that she cheated on everyone, and with the same person. She even cheated in him when she was dating him.
No.
He or she just either had regret or met someone better or like anything in life... shouldn't have gone for the first taxi cab.
So you know... regret and re-evaluation are human. It's human, to be human. You're all only human 🙂🙂Had boyfriend who cheated , ended it right then. He wanted me back but I found out he has others he had cheated on so it's clearly a pattern with him... 🖕
I agree but it’s tricky
Cheating can happen mentally too , daydreaming about it and physical. But in our realm physical is like the last step of “achieving” it..Honestly, girls and boys both cheat, but sometimes they are just lost, if they tried hard enough they could change.
No. I cheated on my first boyfriend I was 21 young and dumb. My previous ex was loyal 4 yes, yet he cheated with several others...
I respectfully disagree. Sometimes there are lapses in judgment that the person regrets later.
I know most people will say there's no such thing as a one-time cheater. Could be rare, but I'm convinced that there are some.It takes serious determination to resist a bad habit. I do believe they will always think about the options and acts, but they may be faithful to another one day
maybe not necessarily but definitely not worth finding out.
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