My first girlfriend at 32? Am I a simp? (Page 2)

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I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance. I don't know if the good outweighs the bad. So in this question I’m gonna share with you the pro and cons. Pros 1. Food: always cook for me on her days off. Even took the time to learn my favourite recipes. 2. Budgeting: She’s very smart with her money. We both have over 50k saved up with no debt. We have it planned to buy a house together and pay a low interest rate. 3. Open-minded: I can talker her about almost anything and she’s a good listener. 4. Very sharing: She let me borrow her car for 3 weeks when mine got totalled. Every time she gets bonus pay she’s willing to spend on me. Cons 1. Has temper: Every time she has to explain something to me a second time she screams me. We end up fighting and not talking for days. 2. Conceited: She believes she so hot that every man in the world wants her. Her exact words “I have a big ass and D cup breasts. Every guy wants me”. Women should be confident but this is ridiculous. 3. Verbal/Emotional abuse: She tells me that I’ve never had a girlfriend because I’m socially awkward & weird. And how I’ll never find anyone better than her. And that the only reason she agreed to date me is because I’m handsome with muscles. And if I stop working out she’ll replace me. 4. Shallow: She refuses to date guys her age and only wants younger men. Nothing wrong with dating younger, but refusing to date your own age is dumb. 5. Male friends: She only has 4 female friends, the rest are guys. She even admitted a couple of them want her. She has a male bestie Alex who she texts almost every day. Whenever Alex has a girlfriend he barely texts her and she gets mad. She agreed not to hang out with guy after I told I’m uncomfortable, she said I’m “just being jealous”. Is this how a relationship is supposed to be? please give me the best advice with your comments.

MJtheCoach · Answer

That’s not what simp means.

Simp Does he mean a guy who date a girl who’s older or take care of them simply means guys were doormat for girls do Yasmin’s that look for validation from girls and jump any height to get laid.

Anonymous · Answer

Logic of the internet blues: If you have a girlfriend, you're a simp.

also you are being emotionally abused. You shouldn't tolerate such behavior. Find a new girlfriend, then dump your current one. This is not healthy.

okeydoke · Answer

Some of the cons you described are big red flags, namely the emotional abuse and gaslighting.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. A simp is a man wvo does things to get a girl to like him or give him sex but he will never get it from her.

Grubhub · Answer

Have you ever had a BJ or handjob before you got this girl friend?

Flower7 · Answer

She doesn’t seem like a good girlfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

there are more cons on your list than there are pros this should be a sign showing this is not the relationship for you

FictionalCharacter · Answer

This sounds like a made up story

Rachelspiks · Answer

You're a simp. Get rid of her, she's toxic.

tatianamay · Answer

Dump her

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

You are better off leaving.

Medhat-M · Answer

Not a simp but a sugar boy lol..

boobliker · Answer

let her lead you and if you like well...,,,,,...

Joker_ · Answer

you're cringe and unbased

anylolone · Answer

Battered boyfriend.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

simp

Julious0202 · Answer

I had my first at 24

Anonymous · Answer

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