who says a toxic person can't be filtered and purified in time? You get the counselling and you have conversations and you take things really, really slowly and treat them well. If they start doing toxic things again you let them know and if it repeats too much you apologize and maybe send them a farewell letter and a gift and wish them all the best and that you do care about them but can't be around them because they are putting your heart through too much pain. Let them know you'll always be thankful to them, you'll always be cheering them on in the distance, and you'll always cherish the good times with them. What more can you do? You're only human after all.
Doesn't really matter. A person you find toxic will be bad for you. Many toxic people have loved ones. They still make their lives worse.
Parents can make a great example. While they love their child and want whats best for them. Some will ignore that child is also an individual.
- Overly religious parents forcing religion on a child who doesn't believe to save them.
- Parents trying to make their daughter stay thin and causing her to develop an eating disorder.
- Parents living through their children. Trying to make them achieve greatness as a child.
If someone is toxic, that means they are constantly damaging you AND the relationship. It also means they truthfully don't know HOW to genuinely love someone.
So, there is nothing to do but protect yourself from such a person and situation. You have to leave for self-preservation.
What is your definition of toxic if you’re saying in the same sentence he doesn’t let harm come to you. I view toxic as just that — a guy that is harming me.
Anyway if he’s protective, that’s attractive asf.
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u What I would do depends on my feelings for her and all of the circumstances in our lives.
I believe in having healthy boundaries to keep toxicity at bay. If they genuinely love me, that's great, I can genuinely love them back... from a safe distance.
That's more or less my solution, keep them at arm's length, love without attachment, and have clear boundaries about what I will and won't tolerate in terms of if they are exhibiting toxic behavior.
I don’t know what I’d do. What would you do? I guess it depends if I love them back.
Feel flattered and then kick them back into the trash
That's like my family.
I would not want anymore of that if we are not blood related
My ex saved me a lot. And i do mean from a lot of things. But nah if theyre toxic, run and dont look back.
If they don't hurt me how is it toxic? Me confused.
u love is not toxic, period... idealizing harm and hurt is toxic AF
Nope i dont fuck with weirdos even if they saved me
They won't have me. I'm not going to drink sweetened arsenic.
Well, we can be both toxic.
I'll genuinely reject them
Maybe I would love her back and see what happens.
Marry them and they will divorce you.
that's quite a conundrum a unique paradox
Move on
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