Do you believe there's true love if someone cheats on their partner?

[busysexygirl]

Long story short met a guy online and really liked him and he liked me back, not even just a sex thing but personality wise. He sends his number and randomly comes up on ig suggestions I clicked and saw that he has a girlfriend he has been with since 2015. Moved to a new city with her, I confronted him about it and doesn't seem to be taking it serious and keeps persuading me for the last 3 months. I don't want him and from my part I cut all communication when I found out.

My question is do you think what type of love is that that someone has when they have the coldness of cheating on someone they sleep with every single night, someone they have been with for years and years, someone that knows your friends and family?

[Juan_Curious]

There are two reasons why a man would act like that:

1) He is tired of the relationship and wants to stop but he's not strong enough to tell her. A dangerous situation in my opinion, because you would be relegated to a 2nd level.2) He is tired of the relationship but doesn't want to end it. He still loves her a lot but needs a break. In this case you are be his toy. In both situations stay away. Now, if he has told you that he really wants to quit his other relationship that would be different, however take in account that many people (men and women) afraid of staying single and they always need somebody next to them. In most cases they don't have real feelings, they just cover a need.

[slatyb]

I don't worry whether my partner loves me, or thinks they love me. Their thoughts don't affect me. Their behavior does, so that's what matters. Cheating and lying is not loving behavior.

[friendlypixie]

I wanna say you probably can love & cheat on someone but I've never experienced it so I don't really know. Obviously, it's a bad thing to do, but love doesn't make the lust go away or anything. I'm not trying to validate cheating or anything but there's a difference between loving someone and being in love with them & every relationship is different

[lambrini]

My girlfriend cheats on me a lot but I still love her

[kyleelyn199723]

There is no love in either situation. She is most likely a great girlfriend and he most likely can’t stand the thought of leaving her, so he cheats.

[coachTanthony]

Love has nothing to do with cheating. You can love someone and still be a selfish disrespectful bastard and cheat on them. We should all strive for being with someone who respects us first then love can come later.

[TruthBringer]

You cannot call that true love. True love will support true loyalty. I've argued with a dude on this webste who claims that despite a couple is very content and satisfied within their relationship, one is still going to cheat. I've never heard this much horse shit in a while

Sure, love is not the only factor needed to maintain a healthy relationship, yet when two people are in love, they aren't just going to seek to fill the gaps with someone else.

[t-8900]

Cheaters don't love, don't know love, and most certainly don't deserve love. They're the immature, selfish losers they ruin dating and marriage for everyone and cause trust issues between the sexes. Cheaters should only be allowed to date other cheaters because they are meant for each other and that's all their childish asses deserve.

[TheFlak38]

did you ever consider that the girlfriend might be a selfish bitch who doesn't offer anything at all in return? and don't tell me now that he could break up with her and start something with you because that's something women NEVER do. You always have a back up guy waiting to fuck you once the break up has been announced (in reality you break up with the guy at least 6 months before the announcement). Let's add to that the thousands of thirsty followers you have on social media, on top of all your tinder matches, on top of the entire army of white knights you have in real life.

[t-8900]

Yeah but the guy should still break up with her then if she's or offering anything. Why waste your time?

[t-8900]

*not

[bLouDaddi]

It's a cold soul a person that doesn't really have a true or honest heart. They are pretending to be someone they really not and it's honestly kinda scary, cause they are fooling so many people that no really know who they really are or capable of really being sucks but there is nothing we can do but stay away from them or just go with the flow and just never keep your guard down with that person they are desperate enough too not care about anyone but themselves it doesn't matter the outcome as long as there happy. fCkm

[lambrini]

It's love, I got cheated on and she kept on doing it while also in relationship with me so needless to say we never had sex but we were in a relationship together but after 7 years of me encouraging her to do it with other guys she left me and "wanted a more dominant man" but it's not really cheating if she wants to be satisfied.

[t-8900]

Ya you were emotional security. But she never loved you. God this hurt to read so much. Keep this up and you'll get walked on and dumped by every girl

[Abinav08]

True love is true!! Outward intimacy can never be sincere so if your partner cheats on you it means that what has happened for so long is just a pathetic drama.
Never go after such a person and waste time.. learn to respect yourself first.


Your first priority should always be your self respect, one cannot control oneself without this self-esteem.

[unusuak]

Hell nah i dont think karma would allow that shit. I think if you cheat or anything like that you may find true love just to watch it fall apart

[Drooogie4]

That type of person is a sociopath and I truly believe they do not love anyone besides themselves and what serves them.

[RobT312]

Nope not true love... sounds like you Cut contact and moved on, congrats!

[Staximus]

That is not love. If you love somebody, you care about their feelings. The guy is a shit bag. Don't get your hopes up until you meet somebody in real life, also.

[LinaDaGoddess]

No, but i also don’t understand quite exactly how men work/think so I’m only speaking for myself.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nope. It sounds to me like he believes he is justified in wanting to build a harem for himself.

[Heartache0405]

Absolutely not. Never believed in true love. Never believed in romantic love.

[McSlav]

Obviously not, she violated the till death do us part thing, and backstabed her huseband because she was bored.

[womanoid]

No. If you guys are meant to be together, you are, "soulmates" then there should be no reason or temptation rather, to cheat. Because your soulmate should already have everything you desire.

[Anonymous]

It's entirely possible to love someone and still cheat on them. It's not great behavior (obviously!) but just because you love someone doesn't mean you never wrong them.

[cookiecrusher]

He will cheat on you too, you think you would love that too?

[busysexygirl]

Learn how to read dumbass I no longer talk to that man.

[cookiecrusher]

Sorry, i was blinded by such an idiotic question. Of course that's no love.

[ashish804]

its like he got bore fucking her and now want u to bang u and enjoy

[Retiever]

I believe in true love , did I have the patience to wait for it, no.