How to tell him I just want too be friends?

[LoverXpp]

I was serving and he left me his number. turns out he is in his 40s and has 3 kids with different woman in different states. I am not into him because of that. And that also tells me he sleeps around with woman just by having kids with different women. I am 24 years old but I don’t see why he wants to date me. he says now I want to be his wife we just met. how to tell this creep to move on? he likes way younger bigger woman but I can’t offer him anything. I live in California. he has never been married probably because all those baby mamas he has they say all of them didn’t work out but could have if u kept it in your pants until after marriage

[Whislelowblow]

Tell him sorry you’re just not my type, but I know some who would be interested in you. and the Set up a blind date with the most promiscuous girl-friend you have. Or just tell him “you’re being too friendly with and it’s making me feel uncomfortable.”.

[animesenpai]

I never thought I could read so many red flags in one paragraph

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Just honestly tell him you're not interested... And probably shouldn't even try to be friends with him because he'll most likely keep trying to make it a more than friends thing...

[mark000h]

Guy sounds like a total loser. Why do you even care? Tell him eff off.

[Wise4myage]

Don't even bother trying to be friends, and just tell him you aren't interested.

[Abdulwahh]

I fully respect why you dont want him but would you take him if he had no kids

[LoverXpp]

Yes and no. if he was widowed or divorced and had kids that’s fine but he has kids and never married meaning he knocks them up and leaves the child all in a different state is a red flag. honestly I am too young for him and cannot offer him anything. besides sex.

[Abdulwahh]

Okay thats best

[LoverXpp]

Yeah that’s a red flag he doesn’t live with any of them and just let them single moms. I’m like nah and if he is 40 he’s probably not marriage type

[Abdulwahh]

That remains your choice

[noohair]

Tell him he is disgusting.