I think it's great if he loves to cook...
My husband was the one who did most of the cooking in our house.. Not because I couldn't or wouldn't, but because he loved to cook, and once he couldn't work anymore, I think it still gave him a sense of purpose. When he got too sick to cook, then I became the primary cook...
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If men are effeminate for cooking at home, then what does that say about some of the top chiefs of the world who are men? Does that mean they are less of a man because they cook for a living and also at home? I'd be willing to be most if not all of the married ones are the main cooks for their household. So not, I do not think a man is effeminate for knowing how to cook or cooking at home.
In fact I'm learning how to cook because, in order of importance: 3. I'm a creative person, 2. I like the activity and ability to do so and 1. I like the idea of being able to cook something for the one's I love and care for.
In conclusion, I think husbands who cook in the household can be creative and passionate people who enjoy their craft. And if anyone says they are less of a man for honing a very useful and creative skill... well then, who is more the fool? Us with a passion to learn such an art for ourselves and our loved ones, or the naysayers for their rigidity and ignorance?
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I enjoy cooking and don't care if anyone else thinks it is effeminate. I also do carpentry, plumbing, electrical work, painting, roofing, and some automotive repairs.
As I've just mentioned on another question, although I do consider myself to be an above average cook/bakery, my husband totally surpasses me with his amazing adventurous and creative skills in the kitchen.
There's times when I feel so frustrated and totally embarrassed.
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A man doesn't need to learn to cook as much as a woman does in traditional family settings, but in my view cooking is a general human skill everyone should have. If a man happens to have more fun doing it, no reason to not utilize that fact. If not, he should be able to still perform the task adequately when his wife is not present, too busy with something else, or if it's simply his turn because both think its a chore, there are no children and both work. In that case there is no excuse.
Context matters, but every man should be at least able if not exactly happy to do it.I love to cook, I do so i became a chef. I really don't give a fuck about what people think about me when it comes to cooking and baking but here is a thought about middle aged men that don't/can't cook!! Oh wow how manly you are, oh wow 😊 and you can't cook? Oh wow your manly man juice is dripping every where. The food in the photos looks great 👌. Keep on cooking 👨🍳
Shit, I was the housekeeper. My ex-wife didn't do shit. She did the laundry, sometimes. I cooked, cleaned the house and did the majority of the laundry.
We had a deal when it came to cooking, if she cooked I cleaned. If I cooked, I cleaned. So I did most of the cooking, since the shitty part is the cleaning.
The cooking I didn't mind so much, I am a good cook and I like to cook.I LOVE IT! I’m so glad he’s taken that on. We used to share the duties but since the kids were born and since my man is a natural in the kitchen, it’s the best!
I mean, the restaurant business is dominated by men. My grandfather did the majority of the cooking and he was as manly as they get. I learned most of my cooking from him. I've never considered a man effeminate for having a valuable skill. If anything it's incredibly sexy.
I would absolutely love a guy who cooks. Seriously, I see Mums looking so worn out and sad all the time because of the dynamics at home. Even my Mom cooks or feels compelled to cook for everyone and Dad is just pulling the I'm tired from work excuse when she works just as hard as him. I love them both but it made me realise I want a man who is involved in domestic affairs in the home, both cooking and housework. I will do my part as well. It's not a one way street. I would definitely will be turned off by a guy who does not cook/get involved with housework chores. Guys who cook at home are attractive to me because they are rare to find in my society. I'm Singaporean and cooking is definitely a Mom thing tragically.
It’s awesome that there are actually men who don’t expect women to do all the cooking (and cleaning). That’s not the case in my upbringing sadly... I think it shows care to your wife/girlfriend and is very helpful around the house and to the family in general. 👍👏
I prefer if a man does the cooking. I'm really short and it's difficult for me to reach things, and using a step stool is dangerous for me cuz of balance issues.
I mean, don't get me wrong, I know how to cook and am able to follow recipes etc, and will on occasion rustle something up.
So yeah, if a guy likes to work in the kitchen and prefers to do the cooking, that's an A in my book!😊Personally, I like cooking. I started to learn in part because I didn't want to have to rely on another person for me to eat well. That said, every girlfriend I've had has known how to cook lol.
So I'll cook some meals because I want to, but if someone was cooking majority of the time it was them. But every girl has known if I'm cooking they're going to love it. My pasta crushesWe both cook. She's better at German and Polish dishes. I'm better at Italian and desserts. For typical American fare, one of us is better cooking a particular dish. I do the cooking when we go camping.
I cook a couple of meals a week and mostly always have. I also do nearly all of the grilling, and there's a LOT of grilling going on.
in my opinion, cooking is something ALL adults should be able to do. You don't need to be some 5-star chef or anything, but if you can't make a dozen different dinner meals, then you probably should spend some time learning to cook. It's an invaluable skill that you really don't want to be without.Women are so lazy anymore these days. I can't even remember the last time I met a woman who was a good cook. It's like girls feel so oppressed and exploited by society if they cook. Sure. I will cook. Because I don't want burnt instant macaroni every night for three weeks. Thank you very much
My dad loves to cook and actually owned a restaurant at a certain point. So I grew up with him cooking. In my household, my wife cooks. Cooking while being a necessity is an act of nurturing. Women tend to be more nurturing than men, so women usually end up cooking. Hence why the gender role stereotype exist.
I husband is excellent cook. He has his favorites he’s very good at making, and genuinely enjoys grilling and smoking. He can be a little bit slower than me, but he also cleans up as he goes which is kind of nice. One family favorite is homemade pot pies
I'm the primary cook for the family.
as to whether it's effeminent... who cares. I enjoy cooking and trying new things. I just made fried plantains in butter, wonderful!It's not that a man is effeminate for cooking. It's that he's probably being a sucker if he does all of the cooking, for reasons I've explained in multiple MyTakes about feminists and the games they play to get more out of a relationship than they give.
Would love it, but is this one of those he cooks and I clean? My parents do that rule, whoever cooks doesn't have to clean up.
We both cook the things we're good at. He's better at the poppy sizzly stuff, I'm usually better with the baking stuff.
I wouldn’t mind it at all. Though I wouldn’t want that to be a thing all the time because i love to coo. I would be a little jealous after a while.
I like cooking and I'm good at it and married someone that I am now separated from but I had to teach her to cook and she never did learn very well so most times I've done almost all the cooking.
So I guess to me it would be pretty much normal but it's supposed to be a partnership half and half
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