Admit that you were snooping. The question is whether he cleared his search history for you or if he does it on a regular basis. I use Ccleaner daily to clean up my computer. It wipes history and temporary files and other unnecessary files, speeding up the computer and making it work more efficiently.
Do you have a reason to not trust your boyfriend, or is this just general paranoia? If you can't trust him, leave him and find someone you can trust. If you don't trust anyone, maybe you'll be better off avoiding all relationships.
well if i had a girlfriend that snooped through my history, i'd delete it too.
look at it this way: you're showing him distrust. and he reacts to that negatively. and because he reacts to your behavior negatively, you think something is wrong, when it's your distrust who causes this behavior.
trust the guy. don't snoop through his browser history. if he's cheating, shit will surface at some point anyway. but cheating is not the only reason a guy would not want you to see his browser history. i'd also feel uncomfortable if my girlfriend went through my pornhub history... specially if we're sort of fresh together still.
s If you don't want to back down, then break up and find someone who is ok with you being paranoid about what they are doing. If he has cheated on you in the past and you stayed with him, then either truly forgive him or move on. You have no right to spy on him like that.
Alternatively, you could just work on your communication and just be open about everything instead of just snooping around trying to set yourself up for something he may do just because he gets overwhelmed with the lack of trust you are showing.
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If you did that to me, you would be an ex- girlfriend. You are totally wrong, in this. You had no right, to be invading his privacy like that. As for you not backing down, that just goes to show how insensitive and controlling you are.
You either trust your partner, or you don't. If you trust him, why do you feel you have to know everything he does. If you don't trust him, why are you in a relationship with him.
I was told a long time ago, that if someone is always worried about someone else doing something. It is because, they are doing the thing they are worried that person is doing.
So, what are you doing that you are snooping on your boyfriend, because you think he is also doing?
He's clearing his browser history and you are effectively hacking into his PC? I think you two should move on, as you have no trust for one another evidently
Mine isdeleted automatically when I log out. He may do the same thing. If I was killed somehow I would not want anyone to see.
Bad sign. Neither of you trusts the other one. I'd move on.
It might be, but you should have answered his questions as opposed to deflecting it.
the fact that you're suspicious, just proves this is a bad relationship
Wha a bad boyfriend you have 😅
Yes, but you snooped and that's not good.
If you have trust issues, what did he do?
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