How many exes can you have before monogamy is stupid?

[Anonymous]

I think if you had more than 5 serious relationships that went down the tank then you should just give up on the idea of monogamy altogether

Five

A lot more

Updates

+1 y

Men invented monogamy because they wanted to be in their babies lives but modern women have babies under a marriage vow, implying till death do us part, and then get divorced and remarry someone else, taking the babies with them so its smarter to just admit you aren't monogamous, you're a bunch of Cheaters. Just stop pretending to be monogamous and be poly or whatever.

[AviatorTom]

I guess my definition of monogamy is different from yours.

For me, monogamy is being intimate with only one person at a time, while in a relationship. If that relationship ends and someone is now intimate with another person, that is still monogamy. It only stops being monogamy if someone is intimate with more than one person while in a relationship.

Using my definition, there is no answer to your question.

[Asker]

Your definition doesn't seem to care about the purpose of monogamy.

[Phoenix98]

Seeing your charming personality in the comments section it’s easy to see why you’d think that.

And why your probably in that boat to begin with.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I don't really see how those things are related.
I don't care how many someone dates, or if I end up having dated a lot of guys, I still wouldn't want to be with more than one at a time.

[Asker]

That's ok. Your brain is just smaller than your ass.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I will never give up on monogamy just because long term serious relationships don’t work out.

[Asker]

Many womean do when they leave their child's father for other options. That isn't monogamy at all.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Uhhh lol. If they are married or dating, then that is considered cheating. Nonmonogamy is a different than cheating.

[Cherry234]

I agree I also think five screwy relationships is a lot.

[priyakigaandme]

what is 9 Inch? Your size?

[SiberFox]

Who pissed in your cereal this morning?

[HelenJacob]

A lot more

[Asker]

Loser.