This new guy I'm seeing constantly thinks I'm cheating? Should I break up with him? (Page 2)

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I’ve just recently started seeing this new guy long distance and he’s really very nice. However I started to realize he’s incredibly insecure due to his past relationships where his exes have cheated on him.  The problem has come up that whenever I go out with girlfriends or by myself, he gets incredibly worried and upset and either tries to poke holes and find evidence in my texts (which I send many trying to reassure him and tell him what I’m doing) of me cheating on him and or he withdraws and shuts down getting very depressed. I constantly send him pictures of who I’m with and what I’m doing and I gave him my location.  I have never cheated on him nor have I ever cheated on any of my past partners.  I feel bad that I worry him and I genuinely try to make it so that he always knows what I’m doing and where I am… and I never want to punish someone about the fears they have from their past… and I’ve never broken up with anyone before… but it’s starting to hurt me very badly that no matter what I do to try and get him to trust me… I’m somehow still managing to hurt him 😞  I wish he could see how much I love him and wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. Should I break up with him? If you’ve gone through this (guy or girl) how did you get them to trust you? I just don’t know what to do…

Better_off_here · Answer

you get rid of him and find someone who will be better for you and like you for you and trust you of course. life is too short to deal with insecure men.

Anonymous · Answer

Break up. Serial accusers are more likely to cheat. Plus insecure men are a pain to deal with.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

If he is suspicious of that, maybe you need to look on on him. Always the one who accuses or denies without ever being accused is the guilty party. Don't deal with it.

Xosegomez · Answer

You should let him understand everything and know you not cheating

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

Its a red flag for sure, leave it before it turns into an actual relationship

Neosporin · Answer

Well I’m inclined to break up because of long distance over anything

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, don't waste your time on immature clowns like him.

MJtheCoach · Answer

I just read the title. You’re dating insecure guy, that you’re the hottest guy he had dated. He’ll bring you problems

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

Yes you should get out now when he constantly thinks  you cheating it to cover up his cheating

Progressiveness8 · Answer

I'. mean you keep accusing me it could be I'm giving you a reason to feel threatened maybe you have all. these male friends calling you

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely. He will ruin your life, I speak from experience.

donnny2367764 · Answer

Yes. Focus your energy on someone who won't waste your time thinking foolish things

KellyKOO · Answer

Doesn't appear to be a healthy relationship if he's accusing you of cheating this early. Red Flag.

ACR130 · Answer

Well why wouldn't he be insecure and scared? How can someone feel good about themselves when they get cheated on?

John_Doesnt · Answer

He's a Jedi and can tell every time you cheat. You should just stop cheating.

najekim · Answer

He sounds too immature for any type of relationship. Move on.

Anastasia1998 · Answer

Yes he’s gonna try control you sounds borderline abusive.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

if he's always accusing you he's likely the one doing it

khya20 · Answer

If he doesn’t have any trust in you then this already is a sign of a not healthy relationship. You should end things with him.

joshctlee · Answer

He’s long distance and insecure 😕 I’d say dump him and start over

Northernmost84 · Answer

Break up with him, If your not cheating and he thinks you are it’s bad.

logger5 · Answer

Yep dump his ass it’s not going to stop he insecure

Kamina141 · Answer

No that's just proves this point and makes him think you're some type of hoe

TheGreatAwan · Answer

He thinks you are cheating because you probably are because he is not Chad

Anonymous · Answer

I think u should talk to him and try figure things out if not u can ask me I'm here and available

Hangry06 · Answer

Give him an ultimatum and see if he changes

Mortdikeuu · Answer

Yes. He's a dominator

hsshannah96 · Answer

Yes. HE’S probably cheating!!!

Anonymous · Answer

tell him that you would rather become a hooker than cheating.

SnakeBoop · Answer

Run away from that red flag.

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

If there is no trust there is no relationship.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Breaking up is probably a good idea.

linka_pat307 · Answer

Break up and make sure it hurts

Not_Average · Answer

Maybe be the one who helps heal him?

loveslongnails · Answer

Two words: GET OUT ! Two more words: DUMP HIM !

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

He most likely is cheating himself.

anylolone · Answer

Yes. That's a huge red flag.

ManHater · Answer

Its clear he has some insecurities. Yeah drop him.

OddBeMe · Answer

Sounds like you want to.

PeterSmith1983 · Answer

Yes find a better guy

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Yeah that shit is annoying.

emperor90 · Answer

Yes he is trying to control u

FukWitMe87 · Answer

Sounds like a Narcissist.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Why not just stop cheating on him?

petitnuage · Answer

Just break. Jealous people are the worth

abc3643 · Answer

Yes, definitely.

Anonymous · Answer

Not point in dating such a insecure guy

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

No u shud cheat on him first.. and then break up

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Run run

dudeinohio · Answer

Sure

jahaims · Answer

Yeah

AndrésC64 · Answer

Yes.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

TL;DR. Yes.

BillyBalls · Answer

Yes!!!

In_Trance · Answer

Yeah

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes.

Joker_ · Answer

Drop him

BestWoman · Answer

İ think he is crazy

fireforeffect · Answer

Yes. Dump him.

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