My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years, we met in med school after he failed a few years behind his batch. He was 3 years my senior. He doesn't really take try to be better in school but always makes excuses for failing his courses. He stops for months at a time and doesn't do anything just hangs out with his friends. His mom recently found out and called me crying saying it was my fault and I should have told her sooner that he stopped going to school. She also said if I wanted a future with him I would have made him go to his classes. She cried and cried and She asked how we can better his future better and to help him. This always puts so much burden on me iij m so tired. He is almost 31 and I'm 26 on my last year of med school. He says he loves me and wants to marry me but he hasn't made any effort to better his life and his excuses just pile up all the time. His mom if going to open him a cafe and he is going back to school. But I don't trust in my heart that he will stick with it. Should I just stick it out, I really need help. Is this what relationships look like?
Should I end my relationship with my boyfriend who always makes excuses as to why he isn't taking any steps towards bettering his future?
