The big debate is he wants to make his female friends his priority over me and he sees absolutely nothing wrong with that. For example he has told me if one of them (yes there is more than 1) calls or texts for him to go do something I better be fine with him canceling plans even if we are on our way our to do something ourselves if one of them call he is gonna look at me and say sorry gotta go. Also he has made it very clear that I will not ever meet any of his female friends and I will never be included in going with them weather it be them going to dinner, having drinks, taking his jeep out with his other friends for a full day or whatever this female friend wants to do. He also told me when we first met there is one who only calls when she wants to have sex! Now I could be fine with a friendly lunch but telling me one only calls to have sex that is where I draw the line. He wants me to trust him 100% but I have heard him out and out lie to others on the phone in front of me which makes me question his truthfulness with me at times. Like last weekend he told me he had inventory at work then emailed me to tell me he broke his phone so he would be unavailable for communication all weekend. In the end he lied about the inventory and being at work (I called him at work and his coworkers said he hadn't been in at all) so his response was he was at work they didn't see him and he was in the building across the street. When I call him out on things he gets very mad and says I am being ridiculous and I need to just trust him. It's kinda hard to trust someone who lies to their own mother in front of you and wants alone time with female friends you are not allowed to know. What do you think I should do? I feel it's disrespectful to me to make his female friends priority and he feels I am being disrespectful by not letting him go on dates (we gotta call it what it really is) with his female friends. Am I being ridiculous and irrational?
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What do I do if the guy I am dating wants to make his female friends priority over me? Should I be ok with them spending a full day/evening alone?
He has a choice.. He chose his, but then you have a choice too. The question is will you take yours?
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You should let him know what bothers you and give him options that won't bother you...
If theyve been friends for awhile I think its ok
You should tell him to take a hike.
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