My boyfriend of a year makes VERY good money and has a lot of investments so I asked him for a business loan of $5000, and he said he can lend it to me, BUT, he wants to see my business plan AND I have to sign a contract, saying when repayments will start, how much I will pay minimum and when I expect to pay it off.
I'm really hurt and offended by this because it makes me feel like he doesn't trust me, but he says this is just smart business and that a bank would make it even harder, and we had a big fight about it and he ended it with "this is my offer, take it or leave it"
Surely if he loved and trusted me he'd just loan me the money without all the other crap? (tbh, I feel if he really loved me he wouldn't even ask for it back)