Why would he invalidate my emotions and experiences?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I talked about stuff and he went on to say he doesn't feel I'm not doing anything. I've been applying to jobs get denied a lot. I have VA disability and it helps as I'm still trying to get a job. He said military ain't hard and his fireman training was harder and I shouldn't make excuses about my injuries. He feels I'm trying to milk the system or look for a handout which I'm not. I did get hurt and I have chronic illnesses that prevent me from serving.

[mayur1598]

Apply to the job that is more suitable for your case...

[Asker]

I have, I got denied a lot but there's another possible job in the future.

[mayur1598]

Don't feel down when you get rejected... You will get a job...

[Asker]

Yeah I'm at least I'm trying

[mayur1598]

That is really good... Best of luck in your search..

[Trend-Shatterer]

No one deserves this. If he’s treating you badly for trying, ditch the boy and find a man. A real man will love you so long as you’re trying and loving

[Asker]

Exactly, he invalidated my feelings and dismissed something I'm sensitive about like it's nothing.