Why did it take me expressing that his actions were affecting my mental health for him to respond?

[Anonymous]

Why did it take me expressing that his actions were affecting my mental health for him to respond? Why couldn't he have done the right thing from the start instead of ghosting me?

Did he not care or did he just not want any blood on his hands.

[spartan55]

Curious... ... such bs. You just won't accept that he wasn't into you.

[Asker]

What did I do?

[spartan55]

Won't acknowledge he just wasn't into you. Nor will you be accountable for your part.

[Asker]

I truly just don’t think he was attracted to me

[spartan55]

It mostly had to do with your conduct.

[Asker]

No it didn’t because we wouldn’t have went on the date. That makes no sense.

[spartan55]

What? What about your conduct ON THE DATE?

[Asker]

What are you talking about or referring to? How was my conduct?

[spartan55]

I'm not rehashing this AGAIN. You know what happened.

[DishLady]

You seem too anxious and needy if one rando’s ghosting affects you that much.

[Asker]

But I’m not. I’m a human with actual emotions and feelings. He wasn’t random. I’ve been “ghosted before “ so no I’m not clingy. This one just hurt coming from him.

[Anonymous]

You guys have to work it out

[Asker]

No we aren’t dating. Im just curious

And he doesn’t want me

[stvigor]

Your scaring the children