It's difficult. We love your curves and beautiful shape. We love that you turn heads and can make others jealous (men of me and women of you). We worked hard to win your attention and affection. We grew the balls to chat to you and shoot our shot. Texts and calls. Multiple dates. Our time. Our money... Our prize? To unwrap such a glorious body for our own delight. We earned it after all. For you then to just show your body off to strangers just cheapens the work of it all and leaves the guy feeling a little.. cheated..
Then there is the whole seediness of the thing. Knowing that you will be alone with some (most likely) guy wearing nothing but your underwear. Vulnerable. Exposed. Without us there to protect you This violates our protective instinct.
"I'm a big girl I can take care of myself.."
Somehow.. I doubt that.
And finally, you have a great body. What do men want in a woman primarily? Beauty. A great body is part of that (not fat shaming). When you show your body off on instagram.. every man on Earth can see it.. unless he lives in Bin Ladens old cave..
Oh wait, even he had internet..
I digress, I see it like parking a Lambourghini in the ghetto. No matter how expensive the car or the security of the supercar.. you would NEVER leave it parked in the ghetto. If it got robbed it is your fault for leaving it there.
If you leave your great body (Lambourghini) in the ghetto (Social Media), no matter how strong the lock (Relationship) is.. there is always someone who can break into it and steal it from you.
Hope that helps.
P. S. I personally have no issue sleeping with lingerie models.. I just could never have a serious relationship with one.
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This was a lot to digest! But amazing feedback!
And very well written. Thank you for taking the time to share your honest thoughts and feedback!
When somone tells you that you are being rude, perhaps you are being rude. Sensitive? Not at all. You don't know me. I'm not even American. I am English. Land of manners.
take 2. I deleted my previous response. I'm struggling to understand what it means to model.
At one extreme, there are Victoria's Secret models. I would have no issue with my SO doing that type of modeling. Working for a client, professionally selling a product. That product happens to be undies. Whatever.
At the other extreme, there are many women modeling lingerie and bathing suits on Instagram. Their modeling is really soft porn. I'm not particularly comfortable with that. Although, I enjoy the titillating images.
The modeling you do on G@G, is not unlike the VS modeling. Maybe you're getting an affiliate payment. I don't know and it doesn't really matter to this opinion. I'm fine with what you're posting here because your photos enhance your questions. All of which serve an "educational" purpose. At least to this community.
well there are a number of women with different body types that do *try on hauls* on either social media or video streams. that often earn some amount of money and/or are sponsored by companies to test out products. so for me it would depend greatly on what she showcases for both clothing and her body. but also would require us to had a strong, stable, health and secure relationship together.
I would definitely be able to have a serious relationship with a lingerie model. I just need to have the loyalty, love and affection and I will also give you the same. Yes, their are going to be many people who are gonna be big fans of her and going to lusting for her, but that comes with the job. And I don't have to be worried about her leaving me if I am sufficiently bringing affection and happiness to her as well.
Any woman who has a beautiful huskie like the one in the picture is serious dating material, regardless of what she does... and that includes modeling lingerie.
No I couldn't to be honest I wouldn't feel comfortable with that because I'm not strong enough mentally to ignore that and it would make feel unsure about the relationship.
I just would not want her to be a BIG name model- not happy with all that fan clamoring stuff. Just a regular "another day at the salt mine" type of worker.
Of course. All it takes is honestly, trust, and loyalty. As long as lingerie modelingvis all that is happening, she could be a nude model for all i care. It's profession vs private.
