Can someone slap some sense into me?

[Anonymous]

It is a literal nightmare to want to be with someone who only wants to be friends. Him and I are very close. He’s extraordinary & so good to me it makes me weak. We talk daily until we go to sleep. He’s sensitive to my needs and wants and his communication skills are perfect. The problem is he only wants to be friends. Which there is nothing I can do about it and won’t try because his feelings are his feelings and I can’t change that. But sometimes it truly depresses me. It’s taken It’s toll on me mentally so I have the decision to either completely take this amazing person out of my life in an attempt to be able to move on from him or continue to be friends & secretly have feelings for him which is no good. An almost impossible decision. Any input? 🥴

[Spotifyplaylist]

Give yourself some distance from him you don't have get rid of him, but you shouldn't force or torture yourself to pretend that you are okay with it.

[Asker]

Thanks ❤️

[RuthlessAggression]

The best relationships, usually start as really good friends. Your problem is, you're in your mid 30's and are likely tryina get prego, right? Times running out for you, right?

[Asker]

Absolutely not. I’m 31, and not looking for pregnancy whatsoever. Weirdo 🤢

[Guy13]

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[roy_ricky09]

Listen very carefully now. Enough is enough.
Just close this all together. Unless you'll never be able to move on. Your life is more important than anything else

[Asker]

Yes, thank you

[roy_ricky09]

Follow me if you want

[SeekingVirginWife]

Lol extraordinary? I bet I can kick his ass.

[Asker]

This is really the first response that came to mind? Lol

[Luckycharms12]

He doesn't find you sexually attractive

[Asker]

Lol yea that’s not true at all 😂 he wants to fuck, it’s the relationship he’s not looking for

[Luckycharms12]

That's most guy's anyway