Do You Smoke Or Drink? 🚬
"I don't smoke at all. I was raised in a family of smokers and I was always sick from the secondhand smoke. I drink only at social events which is once or twice a year. But I honestly feel like a total bore around friends and family." 🍸
Smoking and drinking isn't a personality trait. If a guy thinks it makes you boring I'd question if he has a personality beyond getting drunk tbh. Nothing wrong with enjoying mind altering substances but not using them doesn't make a person boring. Also many guys don't smoke and don't drink or only in moderation.
I don't smoke but I don't mind other stuff. It can be fun getting drunk together once in a while but there's so many other things to enjoy together. I also perfectly get along with people who don't and don't think they're boring for that. I know people who drink and are boring af. There's other factors that make people boring than this.
Also smoking is a bloody waste of money, unhealthy, smells bad in the case of regular cigarettes and is annoying af when you wanna do something where smoking regularly isn't possible. And it doesn't even get you high or anything unless you really go overboard.
Im not a smoker but I did go to a hookah lounge and did hookah for fun. It was nice while it lasted but the next day I was so sick. I dont know if it was from thr smoke or us sharing/puff passing the hookah. After that i didn't do that again. And second hand cigarette smoke gets me sick. Drinks are special occasion.
No, a drink is just a pretext to hang in a safe neutral place though, so even if you don't drink alcohol, at least have a virgin cocktail, soda or even water if you must.
When a says let's go for a drink, it makes women look like a dumbass when they say ooooh I don't drink.
If you want my attention then pull up your big girl panties and just fuckin say so lol.
As for smoking I really dislike it. Barely tolerable even in moderation, and chain smoking is pretty much a deal-breaker.
I oppose smoking entirely. I did it as a teen but stopped at age 22. Never been a pot user. However, I am of Irish extraction with a few drops of Cherokee from some time after the Civil War. I suppose those are my three drops.
I have been drinking a little Bourbon or Gin most days after maybe age 20. My SO is gotten to like Bourbon as well. She's not boring.
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I do not smoke nor do I drink and a lot of guys think I'm beautiful, smart and everything else in the book but most of those guys are very immature ignorant narcissist and much more it's really whoever chooses to talk to you. It also depends on how you carry yourself as well.
Who cares what 'most guys' think! Each to his own. Simple mind, simple pleasures. Interesting vs boring is a very subjective thing.
Personally I don't drink or smoke as they don't interest me. They are both bad for your health and for your wallet. I have a dozen hobbies and skills though. Surely having common interests, shared hobbies, and the ability to have deep conversation about big ideas matters more than trivial pleasures that don't make anyone stand out from the hoi polloi?
Smoking and drinking are social activities. Sure, they're vices. We use them to form bonds with other people. Does s/he have another way of connecting?
I wouldn't automatically think boring, but it'd catch my attention. I'd want to know why.
Ah well.. personally I'm pretty big on vaping and I smoke whatever others have in social situations so my opinion probably doesn't mean a whole lot, but I wouldn't view it that way. I'd look at it like I'm happy she's making better choices that I am in regards to her health. Because being alcohol free and tobacco free are really good things.
Alcohol though I'm not a fan of so we'd be similar in that regard lol
Nooo not boring at all!
But for some reason I have always the idea then that she is looking for a guy who doesn't smoke or drink aswell. But I could be wrong ofcourse 🤔
But for me it's definitly not negative at all if a woman doesn't smoke or drink. As long as she can accept that I do drink and smoke sometimes then we would be good for sure
I mean some might thinks your a bore but I don’t smoke at all and of the majority of the people I have hung around that did smoke only one to maybe three where proud of their smoking habit. The rest highly respected me for not smoking. And I do drink but I have family who are alcoholics and I understand the choice of not drinking except on special occasions. So I wouldn’t be worried about anyone thinking your a bore.
I don't like it at all if a girl smokes as I don't andvdmokingvis a filthy and addivlctive habit that gives you had breath and a general unpleasant smell on your clothes in your hair and generally just on you. I don't mind if a girl has the occasional drink or glass of wine.
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A girl who can’t handle her alcohol is very annoying. They just stumble all over the place while pretending to be classy. Doesn’t seem like she’s aware she’s making herself a laughing stock.
If she chooses not to drink, that is respectable too.
No not necessarily. I mean at my age now I would be fine w a girl who didn’t drink. When I was younger I drank a lot but I gave that all up except for a drink once in a while like maybe 2-3 times a years. Not in excess either. Maybe a shot of tequila but that’s about it. Even when I was younger it didn’t bother me that some of the girls I knew didn’t drink.
Personally I'm a non-drinker and non-smoker.
And I prefer my partners to either be the same or at least use moderation.
I wouldn't worry too much about that.
If a guy is looking for a one-night-stand, smokers and drinkers give him better odds. However, if that is your definition of boring, then I choose to be boring.
I would prefer a girl who does not smoke or drink in fact non-smoker is non negotiable for me.
I'm very anti-drug & don't even drink caffeinated beverages; people who get to know me find me interesting because of some of my quirks & I'm sure that works the same for women.
My girl doesn't smoke or drink and she only does naughty things in the bedroom because she knows I like it. I don't think she's boring, I think she's absolutely adorable and precious. Innocence is sexy in my eyes. I'm tired of party chicks, they get old fast
It depends if she's boring that would feel that way.. My last SO no smoke, 7 years sober and our time together was amazing! Some guy got you wondering that?
You don't need to smoke or drink to look attractive. Personally, I don't smoke or drink either, and I don't care if she does. But I'd prefer if she didn't because I don't.
A guy I’ve known and loved for many many years with an exceptional past and many toxic low value exes told me he wants to marry me one day. That it’s important to him his wife doesn’t do all that especially if that’s going to be the mother of his children. It’s funny to note the women he dates all seem to be drinkers and smokers so I guess those women are just place holders.
I hate people who smoke and can't bear thr smell of it. I would mostly be attracted to the woman who doesn't drink or smoke. Cause i don't do either. But if she drinks occassionally , i really don't mind that.
I find girls who smoke, drink or do drugs to be less attractive. so if she didn't do those things she would be more attractive to me. I even went so far as to tell my ex that if or when she did those things it was a huge turn off.
No, smoking and/or drinking doesn't influence that. A girl can be fun without smoking and drinking, and a girl can be boring if she smokes and drinks.
No, not at all! You don't want à dude who prefers you to smoke and drink. Even if he indulged, he would feel pride in your abstention since smoking and drinking are unhealthy habits.
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