What exactly did you expect to happen? Your just one of many in his eyes. The very nature of this whole “open relationship” should have been a giant red flag to you from the very beginning.
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Women like you are exactly why men expect above and beyond from women while women literally expect the bare minimum, like respect and love from them. Congrats on contributing to that 🍾
Lol, if you dont know what guys want from women then are you sure you're old enough for a discussion like that? Women literally want everything from a man by definition it would be impossible to list.
How about I tell your delusional self? Men want sex (even from their friends), they want submissive women who will baby them, learn yo after them, take their abuse (could be physically or emotionally), young women (maybe even a teen) when they’re much older than her, beautiful by beauty standards, ladylike, etc
Just sex. The rest is your warped view based on your own emotional experience. Ty for sharing this as well as it validates the fact that women dont understand relationships.
None of those are my experience actually, they are billions of other women experiences though. Open your eyes and look around, even look outside the US. Men are horrible. Have been for centuries and probably will always be
that's not an open relationship, that's CHEATING. it's cheating because you said it was ONE SIDED. this is terrible! i feel for you... you need to leave.
good men value independent women that won't take this shit.
He’s taking advantage of you, I can already tell by the way you wrote the first paragraph. That’s not a poly relationship, that’s manipulative and a major red flag.
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I don't think this is a "men" thing in particular and more of a power thing. The guy sounds like he's setting himself up to get burned really good.
I didn't even read to the third sentence and im telling you you need to leave this asap. Run girl run.
What exactly did you expect to happen? Your just one of many in his eyes. The very nature of this whole “open relationship” should have been a giant red flag to you from the very beginning.
Women like you are exactly why men expect above and beyond from women while women literally expect the bare minimum, like respect and love from them. Congrats on contributing to that 🍾
What? Guys ask for 1 thing from every girl girls ask for everything from 1 guy.
@Vegasrunner what do they each ask for? Be blunt.
Lol, if you dont know what guys want from women then are you sure you're old enough for a discussion like that? Women literally want everything from a man by definition it would be impossible to list.
How about I tell your delusional self? Men want sex (even from their friends), they want submissive women who will baby them, learn yo after them, take their abuse (could be physically or emotionally), young women (maybe even a teen) when they’re much older than her, beautiful by beauty standards, ladylike, etc
Just sex. The rest is your warped view based on your own emotional experience. Ty for sharing this as well as it validates the fact that women dont understand relationships.
None of those are my experience actually, they are billions of other women experiences though. Open your eyes and look around, even look outside the US. Men are horrible. Have been for centuries and probably will always be
that's not an open relationship, that's CHEATING. it's cheating because you said it was ONE SIDED. this is terrible! i feel for you... you need to leave.
good men value independent women that won't take this shit.
The question isn’t why do men do this the question is what the hell are you doing staying in that relationship?
He’s taking advantage of you, I can already tell by the way you wrote the first paragraph. That’s not a poly relationship, that’s manipulative and a major red flag.
Never be loyal to someone who isn't loyal to you. Wise up.
What I personally care for and vaule in a woman is
She deeply loves God and Jesus Christ and the Bible.
She's smart.
Honesty.
Loyal.
Submmisive.
That is not something all men do. It is something low-life men do. Dump him and find a man that respects you.
You've allowed this so he believes you to be a doormat
There's no one sided open relationship lol. They don't exist. Either both partners swing or they don't swing at all. Period. Leave him.
A sense of peace, integrity, intelligence... some guys will value a woman like you, who is fine with being in a one-sided open relationship.
Men don't do this this man does this and he who is u decided to be with
Non monogamy doesn't necessarily mean sleeping around. You need to be able to set some boundaries for what you need and want.
He also gives the same dick to other ladies. And you're bothered by compliments?
There's a deep logical disconnect here.
Your boobs aren't perky enough and your ass isn't round enough
I don't think that is open relationship. It's clearly cheating ! If you're in an open relationship you won't be bother in the first place.
Not men! The men you choose.
Why do they do this? Because they can.
You can't change people. All you can do is decide what you're willing to tolerate.
Depends on the dude.
Apparently the dude you are with values being a slut and double standards...
Different men value different things. What one man values doesn't necessarily mean another man values the same