What are some signs a man values a woman?

[Anonymous]

And I genuinely mean valuing her not like “he buys her this” or “he treats me like a princess” type of thing no, forget the cliche stuff. I want to get to the grain of it.

[inhua]

he knows everything there is to know about her, the good, the bad, the ugly and he's content with it. (depends on the degree of ugliness though e. g. she has drugged men before and bragged about it like a Cardi B)

he is willing to divulge his deepest darkest secrets to her whom he has never told any other woman or even a best friend or family member, maybe his dog.

he doesn't talk bad about her behind her back when she's not around nor reveal her secrets she has told him to anyone else.

he trusts her enough that she can go through his private stuff anytime e. g. his phone because he has nothing to hide from her and he won't get upset over this.

when she acts up in public, he pulls her to side to talk some sense into her rather than create or add onto a huge scene.

when she's wrong or has been misled, he doesn't give up on trying to convince her the truth rather than let her learn her lesson the hard way which could be disastrous.

he protects her from herself and tells her things she needs to hear, not things she wants to her even if that if that means receiving threats, insults and personal attacks (though these would automatically be a dealbreaker).

he puts a ring on that finger and is willing to start a family with her.

when she's sick i. e. has the flu or unhealthy i. e. obese, he stands by her to the very end and tries to get her out of that situation the best he can.

he writes her down on his will should he himself pass away.

this is only provided if the woman is worth it to begin with e. g. she gave him the best version of herself to him only and never to anyone else.

[ManOnFire]

He remembers things she tells him, especially if the details were very personal. I've had women be totally shocked that I remembered something personal they told me, even all the little details about it.

He cares a lot of if she isn't understanding him on something. This means that he truly does value her because he wants her in his corner and wants her to get where he's coming from.

He knows all the little things she likes and doesn't like, how her food is made, if she wants the stove light on, if she uses a big cup, etc. and wants to make sure these things are done for her.

He makes sure that she's treated well on her birthday, when they go out, etc. Even if she has toxic family that comes over for the holidays, he will not be happy if they're not regarding her in a good light.

[FilmGuy93]

If he genuinely asks for her opinion about things, if he respects her boundaries

[aaron210419]

If he asks for your advice