Would you rather wait to find the right soulmate or would you rather be in a hurry and settle for the wrong one?

[Savannah194]

[jennifer_bloom]

I won’t date a guy that makes me feel limited cause I imagine chains only get heavier as your marriage evolves and extends. So if I feel we are not in the same trajectory or domain I won’t bother.

[Kaneki05]

Considering I only like very few people it would be hard to imagine that if I did settle for someone that I would regret that choice. Because to me they are one of the few people I like so essentially they are the right one for me.
So I don't know both sound good to me longs if no regrets. But it's not like I am gonna get with someone for the sake of it because as I said I only like few people so most people I dislike and would just stay away from even if they were hot or something.

[young_OG96]

I’d rather wait and attract my twin flame, soul mates are EXTREMELY hard to find while a twin flame you’ll know immediately. The second option is a no go for me, you’re settling meaning you’re both going to continue running the rat race and conditioning your kids to do the same

[anon1903]

Soulmates don't exist.

And secondly, you'll never find the right person if you don't start dating. No marriage material is gonna drop from the sky, babe.

Thirdly,

Soulmate ≠ Right person

Many people are right for you. Soulmate theory is more like Santa Claus for adults.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'd rather be in a hurry and settle for the wrong one. :) :) :)

[Pinay_ako]

Don’t rush. Only fools rush in

[chrissykerdock]

it's a difficult question to answer for a 17 year old girl who's georgeous... you think you walk 10 feet and you get 2 offers for love... spend time being you... know who you are and what you really want... which is much harder or difficult than done... but always remember your georgeous and you can have anyone you want.

[Savannah194]

@chrissykerdock it is and aww thank you and I would love dating you for sure older women I like a lot

[chrissykerdock]

really? wouldn't i be too much like your mother

[Savannah194]

@chrissykerdock yes and not at all. plus im estranged from my mom have been since I was seven I barely even remember her to be honest

[JohnK123]

@chrissykerdock lol savannahs the best

[Savannah194]

@JohnK123 thank you brother 😘

[TheoPfeifle]

Soulmates are mythological. As soon as that's realized, tension goes out the window. There's no ONE perfect person (no perfect person, at all)... Many potential fits (all of them with flaws you must accept)... Find one you like and choose to stick around. It's that easy. One-itis is a nasty pandemic going on.

[Anonymous]

Well, I don't know that I necessarily believe in soul mates... I used to, but the older I get, the less sure I am they exist. If I find someone who loves me (and I him) and we are good to each other, and can build a good life together, then I'd rather be with him, than be alone trying to find something that may not really exist.

[Staximus]

As long as you don't have a baby with them, you can drop them like a bad habit of they trim or less than ideal. If you're young and have time, there's no need to settle for less than ideal. There is no such thing as perfect but there is such thing as good enough, but don't sale for less than you're worth

[20thGreatRomances]

Absolutely wait for the right one. It’s never worth it to get into a relationship just because we want one. It’s best to be honest to yourself and wait for the right one. Until I run into that person, I will stay single and love myself everyday. 🥰

[Rose_84]

I will wait until I die.

I can see that I'm more happy when I'm not being taken advantage of.

10 years of entertaining and falling in love with wrong guys robbed me of many great opportunities and knowledge to gain from this life.

[MCheetah]

I'd rather wait. But knowing how women are and how I don't meet their insane standards of male perfection and submissiveness, I'm not exactly holding my breath or looking for "the one."

[Daniela1982]

If you want quality, then waiting is always preferred.

[BCA6010]

Definitely wait.

Tempting as it may be, rushing a relationship, especially all the way to marriage is a bad idea and almost never works out.

[AviatorTom]

IMHO there's no such thing as a soulmate. We all "settle" for someone who makes us happy, and we make them happy.

[Jacobbbb]

Waiting is probably better. Better to be fully happy than to settle 😭 forcing a connection just doesn't work

[BarryLiverstone]

Both. Not in a rush but want to date people and learn more about myself so that I can eventually find the right one. The wrong ones still teach us lessons. But mostly I don’t just wanna wait cuz 10 years could fly by right?

[Danny_dan92]

I had sex with all the girlfriends I have had. I don’t regret it, waiting till marriage will give you an inaccurate perception on what your sexual needs and standards are

[duttyjamagyal]

No, it doesn't. All it does it make your ability to bond with ur forever partner harder

[Danny_dan92]

I suppose

[mr4435669]

That thought of waiting is for young and attractive people, if you don't take advantage and get your partner while young, then you will have to settle for the "least worst"

[Orange85]

Wait. But we all know when we are lonely we will settle

[DizzyDesii]

I rather love myself then either of them niggas

[Kontrvnote]

I don't know if I'd meet a soulmate, but I'd rather wait for someone whom I can be happy with. Being in a hurry and choosing the wrong one can sometimes end up you in therapy.

[TacosRAwesome]

Something in between. I don't really believe in soul mates but I don't want to wait forever to find someone that brings me joy.