Would you rather wait to find the right soulmate or would you rather be in a hurry and settle for the wrong one?

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Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

Considering I only like very few people it would be hard to imagine that if I did settle for someone that I would regret that choice. Because to me they are one of the few people I like so essentially they are the right one for me.
So I don't know both sound good to me longs if no regrets. But it's not like I am gonna get with someone for the sake of it because as I said I only like few people so most people I dislike and would just stay away from even if they were hot or something.

young_OG96 · Accepted Answer

I’d rather wait and attract my twin flame, soul mates are EXTREMELY hard to find while a twin flame you’ll know immediately. The second option is a no go for me, you’re settling meaning you’re both going to continue running the rat race and conditioning your kids to do the same

fonduegirl · Accepted Answer

Soulmates don't exist.

And secondly, you'll never find the right person if you don't start dating. No marriage material is gonna drop from the sky, babe.

Thirdly,

Soulmate ≠ Right person

Many people are right for you. Soulmate theory is more like Santa Claus for adults.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I won’t date a guy that makes me feel limited cause I imagine chains only get heavier as your marriage evolves and extends. So if I feel we are not in the same trajectory or domain I won’t bother.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I'd rather be in a hurry and settle for the wrong one. :) :) :)

Pinay_ako · Answer

Don’t rush. Only fools rush in

chrissykerdock · Answer

it's a difficult question to answer for a 17 year old girl who's georgeous... you think you walk 10 feet and you get 2 offers for love... spend time being you... know who you are and what you really want... which is much harder or difficult than done... but always remember your georgeous and you can have anyone you want.

TheoPfeifle · Answer

Soulmates are mythological. As soon as that's realized, tension goes out the window. There's no ONE perfect person (no perfect person, at all)... Many potential fits (all of them with flaws you must accept)... Find one you like and choose to stick around. It's that easy. One-itis is a nasty pandemic going on.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I don't know that I necessarily believe in soul mates... I used to, but the older I get, the less sure I am they exist. If I find someone who loves me (and I him) and we are good to each other, and can build a good life together, then I'd rather be with him, than be alone trying to find something that may not really exist.

Staximus · Answer

As long as you don't have a baby with them, you can drop them like a bad habit of they trim or less than ideal. If you're young and have time, there's no need to settle for less than ideal. There is no such thing as perfect but there is such thing as good enough, but don't sale for less than you're worth

20thGreatRomances · Answer

Absolutely wait for the right one. It’s never worth it to get into a relationship just because we want one. It’s best to be honest to yourself and wait for the right one. Until I run into that person, I will stay single and love myself everyday. 🥰

Rose_84 · Answer

I will wait until I die.

I can see that I'm more happy when I'm not being taken advantage of.

10 years of entertaining and falling in love with wrong guys robbed me of many great opportunities and knowledge to gain from this life.

MCheetah · Answer

I'd rather wait. But knowing how women are and how I don't meet their insane standards of male perfection and submissiveness, I'm not exactly holding my breath or looking for "the one."

Daniela1982 · Answer

If you want quality, then waiting is always preferred.

BCA6010 · Answer

Definitely wait. Tempting as it may be, rushing a relationship, especially all the way to marriage is a bad idea and almost never works out.

AviatorTom · Answer

IMHO there's no such thing as a soulmate. We all "settle" for someone who makes us happy, and we make them happy.

Jacobbbb · Answer

Waiting is probably better. Better to be fully happy than to settle 😭 forcing a connection just doesn't work

mr4435669 · Answer

That thought of waiting is for young and attractive people, if you don't take advantage and get your partner while young, then you will have to settle for the "least worst"

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Both. Not in a rush but want to date people and learn more about myself so that I can eventually find the right one. The wrong ones still teach us lessons. But mostly I don’t just wanna wait cuz 10 years could fly by right?

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I had sex with all the girlfriends I have had. I don’t regret it, waiting till marriage will give you an inaccurate perception on what your sexual needs and standards are

Orange85 · Answer

Wait. But we all know when we are lonely we will settle

DizzyDesii · Answer

I rather love myself then either of them niggas

Kontrvnote · Answer

I don't know if I'd meet a soulmate, but I'd rather wait for someone whom I can be happy with. Being in a hurry and choosing the wrong one can sometimes end up you in therapy.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Something in between. I don't really believe in soul mates but I don't want to wait forever to find someone that brings me joy.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

The whole soulmate thing is a marketing scam. Everyone has flaws and strengths, find someone you can tolerate and live your life lol

EndGame55 · Answer

Gawd I wish I could go back and do it again. Although I believe Sarah was my soulmate. Unfortunately she was amputated from me.

Anonymous · Answer

Hurry and settle for someone even if he's wrong, if he treats me right, he will become a right one

Anonymous · Answer

I've been waiting for 40+ years. I think it's safe to say I'm willing to wait for the right one.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I would rather wait until the day I die for someone that doesn’t exist

Luopio27 · Answer

Thats like having sex with someone you are not atracted to. Thats worse than masturbation.

msc545 · Answer

There is no such thing as a soulmate. Just a person who makes you have a better chemical response - temporarily.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I would at least like to go on a few dates with a Girl I like first before I settle for Someone.

driven159 · Answer

everyone should wait but they don't and that is why there are so many unhappy people because everyone wants everything right now

VanguardTitan · Answer

Neither, just avoid the risk of getting hurt and be by myself.

Smartman5 · Answer

I prefer to find the right person for myself

Twalli · Answer

I didn't get my girlfriend until 27. I definitely am looking long term.

Raaj4you · Answer

Both, I want to find my soulmate, marry and settle down Asap. I can't wait anymore.

JohnK123 · Answer

I would rather wait… remember we can’t go to Australia rn… 😉

Jltakk · Answer

I'll sit here and wait. Love is sort of beyond me anyway.

CanadianCityGirl · Answer

Wait for the soulmate. I rather be single and not settle.

landingout2 · Answer

go look the 40 to 50 year old women who are single tell me they are happy

Bigjake1019 · Answer

I’ve hurried my last 2 relationships and that was a bad idea

JosyJosy · Answer

I waited and it seems to have worked out.

dustybiker · Answer

I would have waited.

Ezra_lila · Answer

I rather wait for the #worthwaiting guy for me

Andres77 · Answer

Wait! I learned my lesson

YollyM · Answer

Wait, I'm not in a rush😁

Fireguy17 · Answer

Find the right one and not settle.

exitseven · Answer

wait for the right one.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Rather wait to find the right soulmate

AsaKyo · Answer

I'd take my time and find my soulmate

panamared1 · Answer

Wait

maximumpower · Answer

Wait!!! And be prepared to wait some more.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Definitely wait what's the hurry

BLP11520 · Answer

I married the wrong person but made it work

Creampieanalguy · Answer

You have got to wait

Bigbeastvibes7716 · Answer

Find the soulmate

jimmy2 · Answer

Wait a Soul Mate is worth the wait

kareka · Answer

Wait for right one sure

LazerBean · Answer

Wait

OARingAround · Answer

why would you want to settle?

Anonymous · Answer

Never be in a hurry.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

I'd wait

Anonymous · Answer

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