Why did he text me & follow me back now that I have a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

this guy i was head over heels for had a crush on me & we would hang out everyday but we both found out we couldn’t date for a personal reason but i kept on trying & he would unfollow me each time to help me move on. months past & i have a boyfriend now & i added him only to asks a question about something he sells & we never talked after that & he hasn’t unfollowed me & he watches every story & eventually reached out to me in the morning saying hey but i just left him on read. like why try after i have a boyfriend lol..

[FilmGuy93]

Because now that you are taken, the pressure to date is no longer there.

[Asker]

i promise you he didn’t care LOL he knew it wouldn’t work already not because of me but because of one thing

[FilmGuy93]

Do you not see why you having a boyfriend further takes pressure out of that equation though?

[Luckycharms12]

Can't have you now he wants you

[Asker]

that’s so weird.. i guess that is attraction like people like people who can’t be touched

[Luckycharms12]

People are strange I've been on both sides. either he took you for granted and now sees what he lost. Or just wants you because he can't