Why is my crush not texting me, nor following me?

[Marianna546]

He used to follow me back and stuff before i dleted my previous account but now he didn't follow me back and deleted my request. I asked him if he has a girlfriend he said he doesn't then we chatted for a while and he said that i did the right thing to text him and stuff. H eused to like my stories and photos. Also he said that i have a hot body and am sweet. But then when i asked him if he works he said he doesn't and after that started acting cold towards me. His responses became very very short and i felt bad. He also sent me a heart emoji and I asked him what it means he said "to end the convo". I was like ok and he sent me a hug emoji lol. Should I text him again some day and ask him to go out, or is it nor worth it?

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Ohh also he asked me if i want a boyfriend lmao

[bubblegunnn]

Fuck i dont like guys like that like he's hang us girls between up n down.. sometimes he fly us to the sky by his compliment n sweet simple text that made us in awe and melt, sometimes just drop us hard on the ground by act like no reply or short text and confusing things..
I was same like ur situation before.. i follow his flow and if he stop, i stop too.. it means he doesn't want me, and count the compliments or melt me and question things that perhaps to be in a relationship just as a flirting.. i back off back off

[Marianna546]

interesting.

[rosegirl08]

I'm not even sure, men are confusing 😂

[Marianna546]

hahha couldn't agree more Rose

[H8INCHES]

I guess I would ask you.. do you like feeling this way? Do you like to be left dangling by a guy.. Or do you prefer to know where you stand with a guy? I know there are some butterflies involved with wondering "do he like, does he not". But is that really how you want to feel? You don't come across as someone who does.

[Marianna546]

Yeah true hehe

[RavVid]

It sounds like he is a lot of hard work and reading minds is very hard work. Also seems there is some game playing. At 19 he is old enough to say he likes you or that he just wants to be friends.
I think you should stop making the running as he hasn't responded to it and let him contact you since he fluffed you off.

[IJhonnyI]

Sounds like a horrible guy, personally just don't go for it, but if you want too do it it's not my life too be telling you anything mostly for this situation but it's doesn't sound healthy sounds more toxic than anything 👍🏼

[Marianna546]

He might be toxic yeah... maybe playing games?

[IJhonnyI]

Most likely you should move on he doesn't sound nice but you choose what you want too choose

[Marianna546]

okay

[Andres77]

He has no job?🤔
He got cold with you after bringing that up?🤔
He sounds like a drama queen and puts distance between you and THEN asks if you want a boyfriend?🤔
He sounds like a boy that needs to grow up.

[Marianna546]

hahha he is 19 so u are probs right

[KelleyNice]

You are a young and very pretty girl. It is easy for you to attract guys; just step outside, but you can't have every guy.

[Marianna546]

I know, but he was so sweet some months ago lol... maybe he got over me?

[KelleyNice]

Of course, when he realizes it is not working, he will invest his time elsewhere.

[Marianna546]

Hmm this sounds pathetic.

[jennifer_bloom]

You are very appealing to men so if a guy does not take you at face value, I would leave him and move on to the next, my dad says, “Never let them see you sweat.” My cousin says, hide your interest, to make yourself look mysterious to him.

[Em2829]

You know what... if you want your crush to follow you... your looks wouldn't matter... I got some tips...

Give him some clues that you have a crush on him.

Be nice to him and talk to him more. Be funny around him.. keep a different attitude towards him

[anon1903]

Sounds about manipulative. The "you're my girlfriend or nothing" kind of guy.

[Marianna546]

Oh for real?

[anon1903]

Yeah, I bet he has a chain of girls asking the same question to themselves

[Marianna546]

So you mean he is texting other girls as well?

[anon1903]

Exactly

[Marianna546]

bad..

[anon1903]

Yeah sorry for being blunt

[Marianna546]

Its okay hahah

[anon1903]

I have enough guy friends to know what they do and how they do it, with girls. It's mostly something immature.

[Marianna546]

I think he just felt inferior when he said he doesn't work while i told him i wanna join university and start working lol

[anon1903]

I suppose that's possible explanation

[Marianna546]

maybe or maybe you are right.

[anon1903]

Life's too short. Find a guy who doesn't leave you wondering where u stand with him.

[Marianna546]

you are right! maybe in the uni?

[anon1903]

Definitely

[Marianna546]

Squeeee! XD

[mermaidcancermoon]

he's not that into you. Would likely hook up with you, but not more. Its better to focus on guys that beg for time with you. Not these types.

[WhitneySnow]

I think he thinks you’re not interested. You should def ask him out. That way he’ll definitely know you’re interested.

[JessicaEarl]

This might sound silly, but if you were foolish enough to share political opinions he may have unfollowed for that reason. People misuse social media and then are surprised when there’s actual consequences

[dolemite89]

it almost sounds like he doesn’t think he can get you for some reason I don't know

[Marianna546]

ohh for real

[ZenoZoldyck]

He's clearly not interested in you anymore, just forget about him

[Marianna546]

Hmmm we will see... Maybe he is a player?

[ZenoZoldyck]

Who know maybe yes, maybe not, but If I really liked a girl I'll tell her straight from the end that I liked her, even if I'm shy

[Marianna546]

He told me he liked me a lot years ago lol he also remembered what i was wearing and my earbuds just seeing me from the distance lol

[ZenoZoldyck]

As you said years ago isn't now, why make this all complex stuff, just go ask him yourself and see, how he react and look to you.
tell him anything you are wondering about him, I had no experiences with relationships

[Marianna546]

Okay then i will text him tomorrow

[ZenoZoldyck]

Risk or leave, in both cases you'll know the answers you're looking for

[Marianna546]

truee

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Why don't you ask him? We don't know what's in his mind and we can't contact him.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps he is being consumed by his demons?

[Marianna546]

what do you mean @guffrus

[Opinion Owner]

But then when i asked him if he works he said he doesn't and after that started acting cold towards me. His responses became very very short

It is a big deal for a man to not be able to provide, perhaps he is ashamed of this and is the reason why he withdraws.

[Marianna546]

maybe you are rightttt

[Opinion Owner]

The only person who might really know is him, so why dont you just ask him?

[JohnK123]

Because he knows ur too hot for him

[Marianna546]

you are kinda right hahah

[Joker_]

assume he's homosexual

[Marianna546]

maybeee

[Ballsack]

He's already following you

[NathanDavis]

focus on your studies instead... lol

[Marianna546]

i finished school i passed exams lol

[NathanDavis]

what's next... which career are you studying?

[Marianna546]

economics and maybe aesthetician stuff

[NathanDavis]

do you have to go to a school for the aesthetician stuff?

maybe this summer is a very good time to look up and get into that...

[Marianna546]

i know i will see

[NathanDavis]

yep... focus on yourself and your future...

don't waste any time on any guy that won't even appreciate your attention or interest

[Preeti161101]

It is your personal matter so talk to him 🙂

[AFretiredTXn]

Just keep talking with him. He'll come around.

[Frio33]

Forget him. Text to me

[Erron_Black]

because everything lie

[Marianna546]

? like

[Erron_Black]

his said all

[Marianna546]

how can me having a hot body being a lie?

[Erron_Black]

ur body hot true. but he said for lie date

[Marianna546]

Ohh yeah lol