What if your SO asked for your location 24/7 and tracked you? How’d you react to that? (Page 2)
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Ohh hell no. That's creepy, controlling and to much over the top.
Like I personally also like to know where my loved ones are and I will sometimes call up my mom or sis and ask what they do and where they at but that's it, wish them a nice time and to text me when they get home safe or if they have a problem. But I would never surveillance someone else like that...
I do the same, as described, with a partner too, not only my family
Its like ‘Big brother’ in a relationship lol noooo thank you!
It's not without it's limitations. Some people have two phones, especially if they have a work phone.
If they wanted to run off for some adult fun, they just need to leave their phone at work, or family member's house. Go do the dirty, and be back into view before anyone suspected a thing.
There are people who also invest in camera systems for their home, to ensure a partner is not bringing the cheating home. One guys spent time mapping out a way to literally bring women home and miss every camera. Did it for years, because the wifey thought she was keeping a tight eye.
In theorybid be happy for my safety but I know it indicated something is wrong with him snd he might become a threat to my safety
Depends
If he is demanding... nope...
if he happen to have an app for a reason otherwise , then maybe... if his overall attitude isn't controlling.
I'd be*.
Hits not like he knows who I'm with. Why would I want to hide that anyway?
I'm nit giving the mg my bank info 😂
Mf*
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Absolutely not! If he doesn't trust me and I have to give him my location all the time, then why is he even with me? What do you have if you don't have trust? And no, I would never ask for that. Same reason. If I don't trust you, bye! It's wrong on so many levels.
I know people who do this and I'm glad it works for them, but heck nah.
Unless the person I'm dating is perpetually late (and I can use the location function to plan around how late they're gonna be), it's not worth it. Miss your partner when they're not there and trust them to have fun when you're not around.
'Here is my location dear. Track me all you want.' is what I would say.
I think just the location is enough. What people I meet, is my business entirely.
For this, I would need a really strong network of friends to falsify my location. At last, a location itself is just a smartphone right? You can use a temporary Gmail account similar to your real one, in that smartphone. It all works out if thought meticulously.
But to be honest, I would really not like to be this much crooked with my wife. I would like to be as good and straightforward with her as I can, as I do not want to breach her trust. Because once it is breached, it is done.
I would confront her on this behavior pattern face to face.
The above thing was just like that, but I would really ask her why. And then, based on her justification, I would suggest things.
The guys who do things like that some of them have trust issues mostly because they’ve been cheated on in the past so I’d do it just to ease his mind but I’m going to expect him to give me a shot and start trusting me after we’ve been dating for a month or two to not cheat on him. I’m not his ex cheater girlfriend after all.
The answer would be no lol. There would be no need for that because I'd let them know where I am or if I were going somewhere. I would be okay with them calling or texting me to see if everything is alright and stuff, but tracking me no. It's controlling and would mean that they don't trust me.
This type of person stinks of unhealthy obsession and narcissism, I cannot STAND, partners who call my phone 5 times a day it drove me fucking mad to the point I no only ended the relationship but the friendship too to get her to stop, keep phone calls to 2 times a week!
Mate guarding is a thing and both guys and gals do it. Calling to ask about your day but really to see what you are doing etc. Unless you have something to hide - or might have - it is just standard. Early in a relationship that is just one of the things that is offered
I wouldn't have an objection if it was reciprocal. Being of a technical bent, you should probably be aware I 'll do monthly maps and analysis of where you will have been going. If you want it, I'll out tech you.
It’s a level of trust tbh. If they trust me and just want it for safety precautions I would allow it. If they want it 24/7 because they don’t trust me it would be a completely different relationship and I wouldn’t be me. I’m a homebody, and whenever I go out honestly I’d tell my S/O anyway.
That kind of person couldn’t become my significant other. There’s this old fashioned concept that people seem to be lost on people these days: getting to know someone BEFORE you commit to anything. That kind of psychotic behavior is actually pretty easy to detect if you’re not a moron and/or driven entirely by sexual impulses.
Id say ‘track this!’ Flip her the bird and leave forever lol 🖕
I would share mine w my ex for safety reasons. He didn’t demand it, it was sort of a mutual agreement. We didn’t pay attention to it half the time only when needed or when I was walking to my car from class just to make sure I was good.
My husband and I share each other’s locations with each other 24/7. However it’s not like either of us “demanded” it or we obsessively check on each other all the time. It’s more for just safety reasons. I check it sometimes to see if he made it to work safely or if he’s on his way home. But most of the time I forget I even have it.
It's good to be back lol.
Nope. That's like they don't trust me or something. I ain't taking that.
Wb baby 🥰
I have nothing to hide and wouldn't be doing anything shady that would make a woman want to that. I would get suspicious and tell her "if you're tracking me, I'm tracking you" and we can both get that stupid app.
Some people have trust issues, and some people live secret lives behind people's backs.
I mean we use life360 so we can always check eachother any time. It's extremely useful and honestly just a nice safety precaution. If someone loses they're phone, needs to know what the ETA for being home is, etc...
Am I the only one who would freak out because now I have to go to interesting places all the time so they still think I'm cool and mysterious and I can't just sit at home on a Friday with a good book?
I have a good friend that his wife is constantly badgering him on where he's at what he's doing and who he's talking to. Every time I call him he's so badgered by his wife. She is very abusive. I have also talked with him about how important it is to leave her. I think she's also going to trace on his phone. His life is miserable I think he's afraid his wife.