The thing is they're always pushing for sex, he does the aggressive moves first, he brings the topic about sex first and even takes her to a motel and the girl follows through. They have the ability to progress to that so fast without feeling guilty/worried about the girl's reaction.
Meanwhile I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 7 months but don't really have the guts to do what they do. We've only been making-out and hugging, nothing else. I don't the idea of sex just being my idea instead of it coming naturally from the woman without any pressure. I don't like the idea of me pushing it and her getting upset, thinking I'm a creep and pushing my hands away and staying stop. Lastly, I hate lying to get something. It takes too much effort to lie without feeling some guilt at least.
Well she's waiting till marriage anyways but yet I've known a player type like that... that could even convince ''waiting till marriage'' girls to give it away while playing with them. Is that actually a natural skill?