Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years but dated when we were young.. my boyfriend john and his bestfriend nick have been friends for yearsss and his bestfriend has a fiance of 6 years called jane who obviously my boyfriend is close with/they were all really close too when we broke up for a few years.
Nick has a habit of saying sexual remarks to me in front of Jane and I find it awkward, Jane acts uncomfortable too but by the looks of it is used to it and let's him get away with it, my boyfriend John has started to do it to Jane in front of me now..
For example last year we went to a party and there was no where for Jane to sit so he said you can sit on this (meaning his lap/dick), another time we went round Nicks and nick was saying how he was streaming and nearly caught Jane naked on cam and my boyfriend said he should do that more often so he can see Jane naked, another time we did an activity and my boyfriend said my boobs look nice then nick said he wishes Jane's did and them my boyfriend said to Jane don't worry they look good I've noticed them, the other night Jane was on the phone to nick saying she was going into the shower and then my boyfriend shouted send nudes, then last night he was drunk and it was time to go and jane was like to nick I need to sleep in bed hurry up and then my boyfriend was like to jane you can sleep in in bed under the sheets wink wink
I've said multiple times I dislike it and it makes me uncomfortable and last night we argued, he said its up to Jane if she wants to allow nick to say those things for me but i don't expect my boyfriend to do it, he said he's guys and its just what they do and how their his bestfriends and don't mean anything by it and how he's known them longer than me and was shouting and getting angry at me and completely denied what he had said last night and was refusing to listen to me so in the end I gave up and apologised.
Am I being dramatic? Nick and john think it's normal
