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Excluding places where I would need a license to fish and presuming I've already prepared the line along with the bait- yeah, I guess? But why examine the bopping of the tip and the struggle of reeling in the fish when I can just simply go to the supermarket? Besides, after I've caught the fish not only do I have to then descale it, but I'll always have to remove the guts and let me tell you. That's some nasty stuff. So I'd rather purchase fish in the market as oppose to just fishing for them myself. At least I won't have to deal with the unholy abomination that is the scent of their gills and inner organs. Those things reek. And of course I think there's plenty of fish out there for me. I have wildlife preservationists along with hunters to thank for that that is unless we're talking about one of those endangered types of fish in which case I hope their population stabalizes to a more secure number that way I can feast on them as well without worrying that their population will become unsustainable.
Not sure. Maybe I should try these waters. Or maybe I'm fishing in the wrong lake? Lol
I do believe that there are so many fish in the sea and If I didn't get a chance with one of them I will have a chance with another and life goes on. or maybe it's just not the right time. I can write a whole book about the reasons that make me believe that life DOES NOT wait for anyone and it is way too short to waste your time trying to be on good terms with someone you genuinely don't get along with. It's very simple. if it's complicated to you, then you're letting your negative, illogical side take control of where your life is going.
No, I never thought about giving up on love it's the complete opposite. i believe in love and I believe that no matter how disappointed you are in your past relationships you will always have chances and go through new experiences in another relationship and life goes on until the right person comes into your life.
Of course there are plenty of fish out there!
... but that doesn't mean I want to catch them, or they're worth going after.
Yeah, it's not that bad staying single- at least until I catch myself a mermaid/merman, lol
I hope I don't look like that! š Otherwise, it's NO WONDER, I'm single!š¤Ŗš
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Of course!
Seriously, I have been in enough relationships to know that there is not just one woman out there who can satisfy all my wants and desires. There are probably hundreds of such women in my surrounding community, but I haven't met most of them.
Yes. If you are confident and not a pussy you'll do just fine if you're a dude. Anyone who says different needs to work on themselves a bit more.
Dealt with too many lying MeToo loons to believe that. Also, if you've ever been to The Villages, you'll know why confidence can be hard to muster. It isn't so much fear of fumbling the ball, as fear that you'll find out just how ginormous a waste of time the girl really is - and how much baggage she expects you to overlook.
I've seen a little bit of everything. Florida women are terrifying for good reason!
Do you really believe such a complex issue can be completely binary?
@Chazmatazz269 : For every one of these terrifying women, there's a few idiot men in their lives who enable them to become this way.
I mean to be honest with you I like beef I like cow I mean I'm sure the ocean is filled with all types of fish but even that's getting polluted nowadays but yeah of course there's plenty of fish out there there's plenty of cows there's plenty of beef there's plenty of anything that we want to appoint but it's slim Dickens pretty soon because our government is starting to take food away from us that's another story though all joking aside yes if you really think about it the world is very big place and we are just in our own little circle so we only think like a little circle instead of Open Your Arms Wide Open and thinking that way we put our finger first finger and our thumb together about an inch apart and we think that's the biggest the world that we live in but open your arms all the way wide and feel that energy touching feel it within that's the world we live in there's a lot more fish if you do that
no there's not. if you suptract everyone that is outside of your age range, everyone you're not physically attractive and everyone who is out of reach, cause traveling so far to date would be pointless, there's maybe a hand full left. and then all your personal preferences come into play and reduce it even further. it's not as many as you think.
i don't know where i got this figure from but someone actually went through and calculated this for the average person in an average size city with average ammount of rural areas around, then it comes out to about 7. this could be complete bullshit. i don't remember exactly but the calculation seemed convincing to me then.
@genericname85 7 locals?
@Jamie05rhs 7 of all the people within the range that the average person would theoretically be able to date.
@genericname85 I think that would only apply to a population center of at least 1 million people.
@Jamie05rhs so you're saying that it's even less than 7 if you live in a more rural place?
@genericname85 Oh, absolutely.
But we're talking about serious relationships, right? As in marriage?
If you're calculating for hookups, then the Math is completely different. Everyone can be compatible for one night.
@Jamie05rhs yeah. i mean i can see how it could be even less. specially if you live super rural. but then i would say people would typically adjust their standards to increase their choices.
@Jamie05rhs if you're just looking for a hookup, then there's plenty of fish for sure. but not for anything serious.
@genericname85 Oh, believe me... Rural people DO adjust their standards. LOL! That's why the collective hotness numbers go down the further out you get. Genetic seclusion
Yeah there is plenty of fish, but there is also a lot of fucking trash in the ocean too! Some trash might look like a fish at first but it's not what it seems. Gotta be cautious all the time.
And I'm attracted the more rare fish, who is not the typical average blubbering blub lol
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Hard to say. Yes there's a lot of fish, but
1) the ocean is huge and isn't always populated by fish in every spot
2) if you have a specific type of fish you want, then that decreases your odds of catching it and not some random fish you don't want
3) you can't easily know where the best place to fish for the type of fish you want is
4) the fish are always moving around
5) the fish don't necessarily want to be caught by you
6) there are other people fishing that you have to compete with
Technically yes but everybody has their own expectations and standards plus the moment of meeting needs to be the right one. That way the number of options gets heavily reduced.
So sure there are plenty of women for me to date but because of my precondition the number gets strongly reduced so that it goes down to a really small number.
Sure, just got to lower your expectations
Still looks better than Trump
yes and there's more when you decide to change or address underlying stuff that is controlling or limiting. Doors open and doors close as you open your heart and mind.
there's 8 billion... emotionally complex... salmon... all looking for "home".
There are plenty of fish if all I'm looking for is sex - the seas are abundant.
As far as women who are worthy of commitment, those are in very short supply, and I don't possess the kind of bait that attracts them - nor does the majority of men. And the men who do possess the right kind of bait to attract them are only interested in keeping them around for a few days before they throw them back, with ever more damage, into the sea.
The women who are wife-worthy aren't dumb enough to fall for the player's tricks.
@Jamie05rhs Dmn right
@Jamie05rhs True, but as I said, they're in very short supply, and even they tend to want as close as they can to the top 10% guys. I'm a 3-4/10 in looks and a 5/10 overall to most women (maybe a 7/10 to a few), so there's not enough supply to trickle down to me.
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Oh, yeah.
I meet a lot of people I click with, and have a lot of people who find me attractive. I'm just not in the right space mentally or emotionally to get into a new relationship right now.
I have a fairly easy time making new connections and new friends. I'm sure once I put my mind and effort into looking for a girlfriend or partner, I'll find her/them.
No, Iāve tried dating apps and even in the real world Iāve had several men ask me out and Iāve gone on dates with some of them but I have certain goals and ambitions for my future and they donāt align with the people Iāve met so far. Iām very traditional and I want to be a stay at home mom and take care of the house and children. I live on my parents farm and I get a portion of it and I want to use it to start my own farm too. The men I meet are never ambitious and if they are they want to live somewhere far in the city.
My mother used to say this crap to me all the time and she was born a very beautiful woman.
Anyway the love of my life is out there. But I havenāt found her. I did meet someone 8 years ago who was close. But she meet me at the wrong time which sucks but I will just have to deal with it.
For a casual relationship? Sure!!
For a more serious kind of one? Only a handful. Not that many.
Although I would say that our world is really small, and we only choose from our surroundings, even when there is someone perfect for you out there somewhere, and you would not even know it!
In a metaphorical sense yes. BUT, to be truly successful you need a boat, net and fishing gear. Most women like to go boating so proper fishing equipment can't hurt your odds.
Salmon is my favorite fish no matter how we see things there is someone for everyone no matter who we are
Same š howād you like your salmon?
@Pinay_ako I like Salmon backed lightly in the oven and I like a side dish of rice I like lemon baked on my Salmon, this sounds strange but I like ketchup on my Salmon or plain.
I loooooove that! With rice š and veggies and dip it on soy sauce, vinegar with garlic and chilies š¶ mix? 𤤠I like mine grilled or seared
@Pinay_ako Oh that sounds so good my mouth watering :)
No not for me, people I connect with are far and few in between and yet so far even the ones Iāve found have disappointed me by betraying me in more ways than one, I hate my type that Iām attracted to and if I find another I might even give them a miss because the emotional pain and time lost just isnāt worth it and I donāt think I could bounce back again tbh
I don't think in those terms. I know who I am and I know my value. And either she wants to give equally. If not I'm fine to remain single. As I've said before I believe most women want a relationship. But not every woman wants to actually put in the work for a relationship. And I'm not going to presume how many women that is.
At my age? I do, as single women start to outnumber single men. I'm financially stable, at a healthy weight, have all my hair, and I'm easy to get along with. I'm also happily married.
On the other hand, for various reasons I would only date about 2% of the single women my age. Deal breakers: religion (doesn't matter which), magical beliefs (astrology, homeopathy), tobacco, other drugs (except marijuana edibles, I don't, but I wouldn't mind), heavy drinking, cats (I'm allergic), and no doubt there are more. And of course I'm not for everyone either.
I feel like this is a "gotcha" question.
Because if I say, "Yes. I still have plenty of options. Because I'm a man and I'm a good person so there will always be women who want me," then you all will think I'm conceited.
But if I say, "Well, honestly, I recognize that my pool of options is shrinking and my window is closing,"
then I will get labeled as "desperate."
So I can't win either way.
I already know there factually isn't and that women aren't that "open minded" when it comes to men like me. They literally do not exist (anymore). ... Unless you're literally talking about fish, here.
If you become Muslim that would change actually. Just avoid Arabic girls cause their parents are racist. But as for the rest Pakistani & North African women (look European af) and even Persian women, not under the full Arab culture & regular Muslim women from all countries that aren't Arab. You will get tons of women. The issue is converting to a strict type of religion hahaha!
Yes I did believe there are plenty of fish in the sea out for for me, but my favourite arenāt fish, and are never available and thatās a dolphin and a whale ā¹ļø😫😩
I really love Salmon fish
It's so delicious and nutritious
Well despite there being many unattached I think the net burden of evidence is, whilst they might be of my gender preference, the number I could form a worthwhile relationship with is a very small number of them.
nobecause i think i'm very much replaceable. but i believe in Jesus so i lnow he will send someone who can appreciate me and would be willing to stick with me. but right now i'm still working on myself
I believe there's plenty of fish, but for me specifically? Nah. I'm pretty picky. There might be total of 3 guys (just made up that number) for me that I really connect with 🤔
never been an issue for me...
mostly because I don't need plenty of one interested on me either, I just need one... lol
i'm sure there is, it's a big world, but this very specific fish is the only one i feel most comfortable around and one that feels like home. i don't see myself with anyone else.
Once I stopped wasting my energy on other fishy people I also am angling for a very special breed of salmon.
Too much fish. Luckily my girl got a monogamist that got too tired of fishing. But don't think for a moment I can find a new fish as good or better for her.
Only fish I can fuck and fuck alone. Most of the women out there that have any actual relationship material are taken... and relationship material also requires I'd want to fuck them.
Yeah sure but Iām not really into a lot of people coming in and going at this point of my life. Iāll entertain it now but eventually Iāll prefer to go back to one person only
I believe there's plenty of options but very few who we could āworkā with. So yea if things dont work with one, i have no doubt that there will soon be another
No. Women have changed. They donāt value what i bring to the table. So there are no fish in the sea for me. Which is ironic because i donāt really like fish, for food. Ell oh ell!
I do, yes, but unfortunately my type can be pretty hard to find because they're usually at home watching anime all day lmfao
No man itās really hard to find someone. You have to both be attracted and love eachother. Although you love each other, your personality might clash and fight all the time.
It's absolutely true. Just because a person gets fixated on someone else doesn't mean that person is "all there is or can ever be". There's a whole world of people you haven't met, and won't, if you fixate on someone, especially someone you can't have.
There are already opportunities to have a great catch. Just because you like salmon you may like trout also. You may need to look around. Sometimes the one that you want is not what you truly need.
9 billion humans, 51/49 split of women/men then subtract all minors. That's a love of people to have a relationship with especially if your bi, but of course who can travel the world to find a "soulmate"
Perhaps, but I always find myself in the wrong pond. And the website is a scam.
I imagine that I was an acquired taste so there were not too many women who would put up with me.
Yes, but a not are not even worth trying for. Most apps for dating have turned into hookups. I donāt go it really and canāt go to a bar to meet people, because I am only 19
Well, it helps when you have a giant rod like mine⦠fishing rod of course 😏😂
I think so but I am not looking for plenty, one will do...
There's plenty of fish.. for everyone.
It's a free-for-all out there. No one is reserved to anyone.
Thereās plenty of fish yes but those fish have too many barriers they create to starting a relationship
Not really. It takes a very niche set of tastes to want me lol
Probably, but they all seem to be hiding in some pond somewhere.
There is you just need to use the right bait, usually the good fish are already taken and thereās no more fish in that lake and you have to try a better spot
No because most of them are not desirable or acceptable as a mate.
I think I could find someone if I had to. But I donāt.
I believe because I don't think a cute guy who's also sweet is rare at all.
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Oh, definitely. Most of them are probably overseas though!
I've been alone for 25 or so years out of the last 30. I put my rod away about 8 years ago and have no intention of casting it again. For me, the pain isn't worth the pleasure unless there is a lady with the innocence of an 8-year-old, the figure of a 21-year-old and the maturity of a 50-year-old. A mix as common as hen's teeth.
Yes. Anyone who's good looking, has a nice personality, has a solid job, and is emotionally mature has endless options :)
No. At this point, fuck it. Iāll focus on my career and education
Usually a body is designed in a way that listens to no body and develops, taking instructions from no body. In humans sexual organs come to action once the body develops certain cycles. This body has a process, this body will not be here for ever. It has some life time.
Emotions/feelings comes with the person we are.
This body tells us what it needs, and what it craves. It needs, air, water, food, being got needs some activity, sex is also a part of body.
Respecting its NEEDS, satisfying its desires is also our prior responsibility as we own this body as we are the lord and master of it.
Understanding and cautiously satisfaction the bodily pleasures when it needs is our responsibility.
Even a less intelligent animal on the planet knows how to live itās life and participate in sex. And If youāre finding a excuse thinking thatās the highest level of thinking. Itās simply your choice. One body wonāt have that kind of drive again in 30ās. Teenage drive is incredible.
Yes I do believe in it meaning you have unlimited OPTIONS to choose from if one person doesnāt work out or simply didnāt reciprocate back you can easily move onto the next person it is a numbers game at the end of the day
Apparently not or I would've caught se3veral dozen, by now!!
Yeah Iāve caught many Catfish there not going Extinct any time soon 🔜
You go out and find the right person, they aren't just going to fall into your lap. The illness ready to do that is too meet more people
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