If I'm single and seeking to establish a long-term relationship, what am I doing wrong?

[OnlinePeanut22]

I know that not all guys are bad but I only did have more bad experience with previous ex boyfriend and should of learn what are the no gos in relationships. That are going to be red flags, lies, cheaters and getting tempted by other girls. I know I did miss read some red flags that weren’t not to stand out and that did confuse me a lot more. Not all reds flag are going to be cleared and hello there is the red flags. Is doesn’t work like that in real life. I met guys through group that I am not attractive to youth club guys there already has a girlfriend. That instant turn off and can be a red flag. My respectful, trustworthy, honest, respectful and I am gamer. Couldn’t find any gamers or any guys that are not taken. I avoid loud noises that include clubs. I also like listening to music at my own volume and can dance. Learn photography and also got a instant firm instantCamera and using taking pics. Is come out of firm or top of instant firm camera. Name of instant camera is called Instax instant camera. That is some of my likes and interested.

[Pot8o]

I think you should find guys who share your interests by joining groups. If you like photography, try finding a photography club or class. If you like other activities, do the same with them. My impression is you're a sweet girl, and I think it sounds like a good call to not go to clubs etc. because those social settings are often superficial and not particularly kind.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I am not sure what counts as groups of social media. There are not many groups left for people that have a learning disability and one person did disrespect guy with a learning disability from in my town Warr. ington.

[Pot8o]

Not online, in person, I mean. Dunno about the UK, but in my country, there are groups of like-minded people on Facebook, e. g. photographer groups and meetups.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Ok so cool I don't have many groups that are for learning disability

[Pot8o]

Another thing you could do is volunteer. The advantage of voluntary work is that it probably removes some assholes from your dating pool.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I also had been doing volunteer work. Nobody that I am interested in has been older than me in age.

[Pot8o]

It's only old people there?

[OnlinePeanut22]

Yep and is mainly women

[Pot8o]

Ask them about their grandsons lol

[OnlinePeanut22]

I don't know if they have grandson

[Pot8o]

You could ask. I was mostly joking, but why not try?

[OnlinePeanut22]

They always very busy

[Pot8o]

Okay. Well, no one is gonna find a boyfriend for you, so it's up to you to do the work.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I am not be able to get a boyfriend at all.

[Pot8o]

It sounds like you experienced rejection and have lost hope.

You need to keep trying if you want success.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I hasn't lost hope but has been very unlucky.

[Pot8o]

Yeah and life isn't fair, sadly 😞

[OnlinePeanut22]

That's how my real life kept meeting guys already has girlfriends. Or guys that won't be interested in a relationship. I did try online dating and was hit or missed.

[Pot8o]

If you have a learning disability, you need to find a guy who is okay with that. And you need to show everything that is attractive about you. You're a pretty girl.

[OnlinePeanut22]

None of guy that I can't part from online and not sure if a guy is single.

[Pot8o]

Well, you need to meet more guys in real life, and online ask if they're single if you like them.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Last time I ask a guy is single and didn't bother and the guys did reject me

[Pot8o]

I get that. I have given you all the advice I could, good luck.

[Pot8o]

Thanks for MHO

[Wise4myage]

Maybe you are trying to hard?

[OnlinePeanut22]

How I am trying to do hard?

[Wise4myage]

Stop searching and just go about living your life.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Why is it stopping searching. I didn't say that in my question. I just said met guys