Should we just break up?

[cobojovein]

Me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight over him erasing messages with other woman. I now find out again he is being sneaky and erasing messages with woman a 2x time. I dont believe he is being unfaithful, however i dont appreciate how sneaky he is being. Should i just break up with him? We have been together almost a year.

[Emogirl999]

If there is nothing to hide then why hide it? Something is off with that. You might not believe that he is being unfaithful but he is obviously doing something he doesn't want you to know about. A year might seem like a long time but if you do break up with him over this, its better to do it now rather than later after you have been togther for 2 or 3 years. It only gets harder to break up the longer you are together no matter how bad the relationship is. Relationships are built on trust and if you have no trust you have no future together. Speak to your boyfriend about how you feel open and honestly, if you two can't do that then im afriad you probably won't work out in the long run.

[BlueScorpio]

Um does messaging other women and sneakily deleting the messages sound like someone who is faithful? It's pretty obvious he's not, if he was he wouldn't be messaging other women to begin with. At this point he's shown you he is not faithful and isn't going to stop but will try to be more discret about the women he's messaging so you don't find out. Don't let him treat you like a placeholder cause it sounds like that's what he's doing. You already found out he's doing it again so i think you should definitely end the relationship with him. Sounds like he wants out anyway so might as well do him a favor and set him free.

[wallyworld12]

Did you break up with him? Lemme ask you this... Are you sure that he is deleting messages? The man is allowed to have other friends like you are. There is no "proof" but yeah there might be a itty bitty speckle of a chance that you will get that beautiful heart shredded emotionally. Are you happy in the relationship?

[Guy13]

Where there is smoke 💨 then there is fire 🔥.

[Anonymous]

Yes. My fiancé and I don’t hide anything from eachother. We have an open communication. If I were in your position I would feel like he isn’t being honest and therefore, it’s impossible to have open communication.

[misfittoy]

ask yourself if he has nothing to hide why hide messages? i think it will only get worse from here to be honest

[Anonymous]

put it this way. if you were texting other guys, why would you want to do that? because you aren't happy in your current relationship or not satisfied. break up!

[Dazed0N0Confused]

If he's being sneaky, there's a reason. Use your gut & go from there

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

End things with him if you can't trust him.

[BlackElph]

Tbh I wouldn't. He's hiding something and he could be acting on it. But it's your decision to make

[Massageman]

So if he tells you what he's doing, that would make it ok?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, do him a favor. He does not need a crazy paranoid person in his life—too much stress.

[Staximus]

If he's talking to other women then he's thinking about fucking them or already is.

[Anonymous]

If he's being sneaky, than he's obviously hiding something from you. So why stay with a guy who's gonna cause you anguish?

[Tanksdad]

yup he is being unfaithful by texting other women ad hiding that

[TheSpaceGnome]

Sounds like he's cheating.

[Jamesshinobi]

if you need to ask, you need to break up.

[TroyDT]

The trust is gone. End it.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Yes, you should

[Summeroflove]

Your choice.

[WhitneySnow]

You should

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. Dump his ass.

[jimmy2]

Bye already toxic