Mom is having an affair?

[Anonymous]

I could go one for days about the manipulative and pathological lying nature of my mother but I’ll try to keep it short. Once again she has torn another man to pieces with her mind games and infidelity she’s done it to my father my previous step father and father of my youngest brother and has continued to do it throughout the numerous short term relationships she’s had in between she’s always jumping to the next guy just to cheat and treat them like garbage every time a new guy comes into her life I sit there and feel so sorry for them I’ve known about this current affair for about a month now as me and my mother work as servers together she has no problem flaunting this affair to me as I watch her cuddle up to this guy at her table and tell me she’s in love with him as if she’s gotten so comfortable with knowing I won’t say anything fast forward to this morning I receive a message from her now ex boyfriend begging for answers he is hurt he is confused and his kids are heartbroken, how the hell do I go about this every inch of me wants to tell him everything but I risk my “relationship” with my mother and she would easily turn on me and cut me out from my younger siblings

[BJP21]

Just going off what you are saying:

What your mom has created is a very toxic environment, and you and your siblings are being thrown in the middle of it. This maybe sound like a better said than done... I would move out and get the cheapest apartment or room you can find away from that. This isn't severing relationship ties with your mom, it severs ties with the toxic environment she created on her own. My concern with you is your well being. What happens if you want a relationship? You don't want that potential SO to be exposed to that toxic environment. Especially if your mom is as manipulative as you say she is. It can ruin your own personal relationship.

[KrakenAttackin]

You need to get out from under your mother. I suggest first finding a different job so you don't have the constant exposure to her antics. Second, get your own place if you don't have one (split an apartment with a friend). Third, just know your mother will never change. Use her as an example of exactly how not to be.

[AviatorTom]

You are not going to change your mother. She is responsible for what she does. Try your best to stay out of her "relationships".

[Anonymous]

Crazy how the female responders here are defending her. Unreal.

[Asker]

Seriously.

[Anonymous]

And what do u want us to say about it? We dont know her personal life that well
We gotta see her side of the story and POV

[Asker]

For cheating? Over and over again

[JohnK123]

Lmao get her a toy or something… make her stop using guys 💀

[jimmy2]

Wow home wrecker for sure maybe you should warn them

[tasleen]

It's ok she have her life too

[savagewolf22]

Tssleen 😘😘

[tasleen]

Yesss

[savagewolf22]

It's been a month gone I didn't fuck you.. pm me.

[KrakenAttackin]

@tasleen. Is whoring a life?

[Anonymous]

Can I have your mom number?

[KrakenAttackin]

@savagewolf22. Never stick your dick in crazy bro.