If a cheater confesses, is that at least better than those that get caught? (Page 2)
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I'm more likely to forgive someone if they tell they cheated soon after the incident over me finding out some other way. If they tell me by their own initiative it means they genuinely regret their actions.
I personally think that is best
being lied to or not knowing the truth is the worst feeling in the world
once you get to know the truth you feel better
I wish that you find happiness in everything you do 💛
Cheaters who confess are just too weak to deal with the consequences so they want to offload some of the pain and guilt. That's all. They are worse.
If you truly feel bad. You keep it to yourself. End it and stop messing up.
The only reason he confessed was because he had a guilty conscience, telling you made him feel better. In turn it made you feel worse. He's a piece of shit, move on
That same boyfriend had other women before you even met, so what is the big deal. As long as he enjoy your body, let him have some fun with other women. You will reap the benefit because with many different women he'll learn many new tricks to satisfy you. Talk to him about what he does with other women, and get him other women. Then watch snd help him by touching him while he is doing it to her.
if he confessed , it means he doesn't really care that much if you break up with him or not. it shows he does not care
Actually I would've been more furious and hurt if I had to find out myself or catch them. That means they're not sorry at all and only sorry they got caught.
Wouldn't you rather have them tell you in your face than go behind your back?
just because you "didn't find out" your man is cheating on you, it does not mean he is not cheating on you. Plenty of guys cheat while their wives died never knowing about it. He never divorced her either. Just a word of wisdom for you
you dont go through a relationship / marriage expecting that your husband will never ever cheat on you. You go through a marriage only knowing how to react when you do find out your husband cheats. There is no such thing as knowing 100% your husband is not cheating on you, unless you follow him everywhere. Looking through his phone does not work too. He can cheat without exchanging phone numbers
Yiu misding that first guy now⁉️ Realizing how good he actually was and that you were to hard on him ⁉️
Even though we never got back together, I kept him as a platonic friend.
I still don't tolerate cheating but will keep them as friend if they at least confess.
Ahhh. Got it. Wanting to try again. I’ve got it.
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The absolute worse thing you can do is confess to cheating. It makes you "feel" better because he disclosed his secret but as you said you're not w/ that guy anyway so he didn't get anything out of it.
I wouldn't say it's better, because the pain of his betrayal wouldn't change or be eased by the fact that he told me.
i personally think yes. it's a lot better if they confess. i probably won't forgive them and most likely still leave them. but at least i can still have some respect for them.
Sure, but i'm still pissed and probably can't trust the mofo
Yes, of course. Much better than a lying cheater.
I think it is much better, but they still deserve to be broken up with.
Yes it's the same outcome, which is a break-up. The only difference is I don't have the same anger as if I were to find out on my own or catch them. Instead of a ''get the hell out of my life'' response, I still break up but keep them as a friend and don't hate them.
I don't think I could be friends, but I definitely wouldn't hate them or be mad at them. More of disappointed and sad.
Yes, but only as long as they’re telling the whole truth. If they confess to one affair and, in reality, they’ve had 7 affairs, it really doesn’t matter to confess to only one.
Better but still too much. A Shiney shit is still a piece of shit
Better than, yes, but it's still an automatic dump.
Yes that's true. They still get dumped. Though my reaction wasn't as harsh as finding out elsewhere or if I had catch him cheating. I kept him as a platonic friend, forever in the friendzone. We're dating others by now.
If I had catch him or find out myself, he would be forever blocked. My only words for him would've been ''get the hell out of my life, **** you''.
Nope.
Nothing good can ever come of admitting it.
It will ALWAYS be thrown back into your face.
May not be right away - may even take years - but it'll happen.
You must know the reason that made him commit cheating at the first placev, its more important than whether he confess or keep it a secret
Yes the reason was we weren't hanging out too much, had been having a couple arguments and my workplace was demanding with long hours.
Ok so you are the best person to evaluate these causes and make a choice
I'm fuckboy. I said openly to all girl's.
I don't do relationship. I chase sex. I don't play lovy dovy game with girls for sex.
So who I am? Honest?
It's nice to be honest. It lets girl know what you want and weeds out girls that want a family.
You're so mature n understanding girl ❤️
Yes its definitely better. What's even better is if he told you before he did it and made sure you were ok with it.