If a cheater confesses, is that at least better than those that get caught? (Page 3)

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

No, the apology is nice, but it only makes you want to take them back, SO THEY CAN DO IT AGAIN

[Asker]

It's the same outcome for me; an immediate break-up. The only thing that changes is my reaction. I can keep him as a platonic friend but we'll never get back together. We're dating other people by now and talk once in a while.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Why keep a guy who cheated on you, as a friend

he's A FUCKING DOUCHE

[Asker]

He at least had the tiny bit of decency in at least saying it in my face. I value honesty even if it'll hurt me.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

But he's not your friend hun. HE IS A DOUCHEBAG

[Anonymous]

I been cheated on and it hurts bad. Yes they're honest but only because of the guilt they feel even though the person they cheated on is left with the hurt and unbearable pain

[Asker]

But them keeping you in the dark and you having to find out yourself would be worse. That is more upsetting than at least them saying it in your face.

[Opinion Owner]

I been in both situations and they both hurt

[Anonymous]

the outcome is still the same. either situation isn't better than the other.

[LivingExample]

Yes, at least you know Honestly is part of his Character!

[RangerBlue22]

It depends on how and why they confessed.

[BLP11520]

I think my wife did years ago, a nagging doubt. I never have fully trusted her, Yes it sucks

[Rania05]

Much better of course, coming

[Rania05]

*out is much than fooling everyone of a false image. It's for the good of both you when he said it, and I like it

[dreamstar72]

Both are bad but I think confessing is worst

[Asker]

So would you rather have them continue doing it behind your back and keeping you around like a fool?

[Shy_Steve]

Yes because you can both move on quicker.

[AddylynnNightingale]

It's better. I'll be grateful. Hurt but grateful.

[WhitneySnow]

I guess. Still sucks for you though.

[boobliker]

not at all, they are still a cheater

[Confusedashell123]

Once a cheater always a cheater

[grega239]

Its the same. Infidelity is infidelity.

[msc545]

Just marginally better.

[jamartheg]

I don't know I’m a cheater but I don’t get caught

[Anonymous]

Not by much, because they are still cheaters.

[ZenJen444]

Girl bye

[Asker]

ok bye

[EaterPeter]

Depends

[Wrightisrael22]

Ohh nice