I did not read the whole things, but I stopped with this;
"i am not confident in how i am or what i bring to the table so it really affected me when i saw this."
This statement more than anything speaks to the fact that you lack confidence and have degree of insecurities with yourself. In my experience these types of people usually end up being the most toxic type of people... because they project their own negative feelings about themselves on to other people. Usually in most passive aggressive ways.
But in this case, all you can do is start with yourself and address your own issues and not project your insecurities on him.
So, if he is picking up on that from you then yeah, he might react negatively to it... does that make him toxic? Maybe, but he could just as easily not be as toxic with a different who is not so negative about themselves and brings more into the relationship.
Bottom line being is that it does not matter who is more or less toxic, because the fact is you are both toxic together and could probably be better off with different people.
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Counseling would be good. Forgiving is hard.
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You both are he made a shot choice and u have never forgiven him with your relationship being toxic
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