my boyfriend and I just had an argument about this. He said its not his truth because he didn't choose it but it just happens. I feel like fleeting thoughts are still YOUR damn thoughts even if its slight or natural. I just feel like he didn't wanna admit it to it because he felt ashame or wrong. I was trying to be cool about it despite how much it hurts, I asked him again & again like what does that even consist of and how is that not even the truth.. I asked him to at least try to not do that out of respect. And then I asked if he has done that with my old roommates and if he thought they were attractive. (because in the past he made me felt uncomfortable by the way he looks at them and he denied thinking they were attractive). He was like probably but wouldn't answer the 2nd question and told me its 2am, its a waste of his energy or something like that.. its like wtf? I got really mad and stormed off saying he's fucking liar and he dont care because I felt like he's so selfish.. he only cares about his own feelings but not the fact he hurt my feelings and he was not wanting to be truthful... I went to shower and he even decided on his own to sleep outside our room to the living room. I was gonna do that but its whatever he did it first. Does all guys do this or is this just him? Can guys even control this?
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Of course we check out every woman we see. I'm happily married, but I still enjoy seeing an attractive woman. My wife is secure in our relationship. She points them out when she sees them.
You picked a fight over this? You need to get over this if you want to have a partnership.
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Most guys just look at attractive women and check out the curves, that's it, especially if it's in passing like at a mall or something. Now in regards to your girl friends, those that he might see regular, it's possible he might have sexual thoughts if they're attractive but he also may not. Some guys control that side of ourselves that wonders what sex is like with someone else and some guys don't.
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no, probably not
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