Does my boyfriend loves me ideally?

[Anonymous]

I told him that I'm hard to love. I'm not sweet. He never believe me. He said " I don't think u are". I don't find it flattering 🥴 the he is talking love blah2x for him love is easy. When I found out his emotinal state is not good. I'm like " okay, I'm dealing with a sad boy" It's hard for me. Unfortunately, he never acknowledged my past. I want him to know my flaws. For him, it was easy. Love is easy for him just like that. I don't love him that much coz my feelings is stil growing. Somehow, he is pressuring me. He talking about future. Marriage and kids after 3 months of dating.

He said he love me. He want me to say it back. He is forcing me. So I said I like u out of respect and to refain of fighting also. I don't he loves the real me.

Tbh, I don't feel the role of a girlfriend. I feel like im a therapist🥴

[DeltaRecon]

You are probably one of the first girls to give him attention. It sounds like you have someone that cares about you and you have no feelings for him. You would probably do him a favor by ending the relationship. If you want to keep the relationship you need to talk to him more and tell him you think the relationship is moving too fast and want acknowledgment about your past. He may not be worried about your past as it’s where it needs to be which is on your past and is only interested in the future.

FYI. My wife started talking to me about marriage after dating 3 months. We got married 3 months later. That was over 15 years ago. How time flies when you have someone that loves you.

[Guy13]

Be straight-up with him. Lot of guys do that thinking they are giving you security. It is well intended BUT you need to make him for you. You can call it manipulation or whatever but he too has to be conformed to your ways and thinking.-This works both ways as both must be pliable.

It will blow up if you do not do this. Do it and sleep well...

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[HorggleThorp]

If you’re emotionally unavailable, you need to pick a boyfriend who doesn’t need emotional support all the time.

[Anonymous]

He loves the concept of you that he's built in this head. 3 months is not enough to know someone will enough for such talk of the future. He's a romantic and possibly naive.

Don't let him rush you.

[Wise4myage]

Nothing good can come out of being forced to say something you don't agree with.

[EmmaMary]

Sounds more like you need a therapist.

[Anonymous]

That's fucked up