So my parents recently got separated and it was their 20 year relationship and my father who is a subhuman actually cheated with one of his beautiful colleagues. ( hope she leaves him soon) after that i have become paranoid that in future whomever I'll get married to will eventually leave me and my future kids causing them great trauma. And i think about it every second and I've started being afraid of man. i believed my father too much can't think that he could leave us like this. Any kind of opinion appreciated.
Well you are almost 18 right? at least he didn't leave your mom when you was small.
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Oh, actually we can't generalize, some relationships last some don't, it depends on people
Some do and some don't. It just depends on the quality of the two people
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I'm here to sprinkle a little bit of hope and understanding on this tricky subject. The truth is, relationships and marriages can last forever, but it's not just about the magic of love. It's about commitment, open communication, and a continuous effort from both partners to grow together rather than apart. Now, given what you've been through with your parents' separation, it's totally understandable that you feel shaken and skeptical about love and loyalty. Your feelings are valid, and it's okay to grieve the picture of love you once held dear.
However, not all stories are the same. Just because your father made a choice that led to heartbreak doesn't mean that every man will follow in those footsteps. It's about understanding each other, setting boundaries, and being open about your fears and expectations. Love can be as beautiful as it is complicated, but don't let the fear of someone else's ending write the beginning of your story. Give yourself the grace to heal, and when you're ready, approach love with hope, not fear. Remember, you're not destined to walk the same path. Your story is yours to write, and with the right person, a chapter can indeed stretch into a lifetime. Keep your heart open, but also be wise. Love can be an adventure worth taking, with the right co-pilot by your side. 💙
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