How long can you be mad at someone you love?

Question

They say that you can't remain angry with someone u love for so long

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

Depends on the severity of the situation. Somethings are unforgivable, others are.

The most I've been mad was several days, can't remember how many. No, I'm not the petty type and no, I don't hold grudges either. We're back as we were. However, this one of those times where it wasn't what I did that set it off (I didn't do anything wrong at all, it was just a misunderstanding from their part) but how I reacted to their interpretation of it that set it off. Their reaction was filled with rage, so I reacted accordingly. I do not regret what I said at all, and I will always stand for myself, I don't care who it is or if I "love" them or not. Eventually they reached out and apologized, and I forgave them. However, I was gonna let go at some point.

Remember folks, it's very important to take accountability for what you do and admit when you are wrong at the end of a fight. If you let it continue, bad things happen. I personally try to look at things from someone else's perspective and apologize almost immediately if I'm in the wrong, which is why my reaction to those that do not do the same as me is often extreme.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well I mean that's the whole thing is why allow yourself to get angry I mean when you're in the middle of a discussion you want to know the truth and you want it to be done and over with and you want to resolved I don't like getting mad at anybody I try to bite my tongue I try to just let it go sometimes but when you're in that discussion you have to understand both sides and you have to respect and be honest about things or otherwise you just goes nowhere and you kind of always hold that Within and if you do that then one day it's going to come back out and that's just not right when there's a discussion about something that should be done and over with and never brought up again

LovingLoverReturned · Accepted Answer

Individuals and adults should have their choices respected. Everyone makes mistakes if they did wrong to you you can be angry and take time to cool off but if it happened early try nit to go to sleep without talking to them or making peace because you may regret how death snatches at random. If they repeatedly do you wrong, seek counseling, that isn't normal or healthy.

When a person learns to stop being entitled, naturally they know how long is right to be mad. This should not be stupid following rules. Communication is better than silent treatment

ohvanillalattegal · Accepted Answer

Not very long lol. I remember recently I got mad at my boyfriend, then he left to take a shower and I remember telling myself ima stay mad… but as soon as he came out, I forgot I was even mad.. instead I just remember I love this person and I adore him. We just got all shy with each other, and then hugged & kissed.

William7489 · Answer

A really long time. People forget that love and hate are mirror emotions. Intensely powerful, often overpowering, affecting your judgment, your decisions and normally focused towards an individual. The opposite of love is indifference. So, you can hate a person that you were dating or married to because they cheated on you or left you, but you still really love them deep down. You almost feel like something was stolen from you or something “wrong“ happened. That’s why people who break can get back together pretty easily at times.

DoctorSex · Answer

I don't get angry with people i love.

I get angry with some actions they may do. But if I get angry with you, then it's because you've done something to betray my trust, at which point I no longer love that person.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

AviatorTom · Answer

Remember that love and like are not the same thing. You can love someone and not like what they do. So, it's possible to be mad at someone you love for a fairly long time. If you really love them, though, you will eventually get over being mad.

I've been mad at my then-wife or my SO for several days, and they've been similarly mad at me.

DrBanana · Answer

I have family memebers I don’t talk to any more unfortunately, I forgave them and got out of the head space of anger but I didn’t forget and learned from the situation.

Not every one will change unfortunately, but these are call you have to make an live with on your own life.

dustybiker · Answer

I don’t get angry, I get exhausted with their repetitive and so expected behavior. That exhaustion tends to be long term. Fortunately I don’t live with people like that. It makes it easier to keep a bit of distance.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i already found my soulmate but i am not enough for him and now he wants that i change my personality to beinh more personal to othet people because i don't have many friends and i don't socialize much and so i'm grantinh his request.

Summeroflove · Answer

If I love someone. I usually forgive them. If you can’t forgive someone. You do not love them.  It depends on what they done. Is it a small annoyance? Or did they pull something major?

AdithyaR · Answer

Depends on what they did honestly.
Small mess ups can be forgiven immediately or maybe in a couple hours.
Major disputes or arguments may take days.
But something like cheating or abuse are unforgivable.

TrueConfection · Answer

Hurt and anger are different. I won't stay angry for very long, usually a matter of hours or less. I can feel hurt for years.

Kori1236 · Answer

Depends on the severity of the situation. I’m mad at my brother; haven’t really been on great terms with him for about 3 years now.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Not super long, but after a fight It gets weird and I tend to avoid for a few days till it blows over.

dreamstar72 · Answer

2 - 3 minutes being upset or disappointed at my wife or daughter. My family or friends? like forever.

Japangirly · Answer

Depends if they did something really bad but usually a few seconds

Talldutchie · Answer

My man? 25 minuts. I can't for too long.. he's amazing lol!

Nomina · Answer

I try not too long because ultimately, does it work? Do I even want to stay mad at them?

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

For decade's. I still hate my sister and my mom.

LovingJo · Answer

For me, right now, it isn't very long.. Somehow, annoyingly, he always gets around me... 🤣🤭 How long this will last, we shall see!! 💯😂❤️

nspencer · Answer

Depends on what they did. Also shitty repetitive behavior leads to resentment.

Vikkrram · Answer

It depends that how you treat them first then obvious reaction would be based on that

Truth0225 · Answer

Not very long and it depends on why I was mad in the first place

Valso · Answer

How about 13 years? That's how long it took me to get her over and for the most of that time I was mad at her.

BigschlongEnergy · Answer

No idea 🤷‍♂️ I Don’t Know What you mean by loving someone so it’s beyond me lol 😂

libsaretards · Answer

For the most part I am over it within minutes after we have discussed it.

Anonymous · Answer

a few days and then it stays in my mind making me feel sick for months, depending on what happened. it comes and goes

Blackcupcake · Answer

depends on what they actually did to deserve my wrath…

AsaKyo · Answer

If I really do love them, I'll be mad at them for a day or less

Subarugirl · Answer

You can be mad at someone you love for essentially for ever.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as it takes. I try not to for very long. Because it hurts me as much as it does them.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

A day is the longest I can pretend to be mad for months

ZenJen444 · Answer

Depending on what it is I usually just cut people off

Anonymous · Answer

I've never been angry at a SO... Just disappointed that they didn't make better decisions.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on how hurt the person is and what the other person did to cause that kind of hurt and pain and distrust

Finchie40 · Answer

When you say I do , you will know lol

Midgetmcwidget · Answer

Probably a solid 5 minutes if I really try.

DJB72 · Answer

So far my record is 37 years.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Yup that's the lie they tell lol

24_7_Amazing · Answer

Me and my girlfriend never fight

EaterPeter · Answer

For very long days weeks if not longer

MrTaboo · Answer

ThT depends on who and what they did

xJayleenx · Answer

One day

Taimurkhan · Answer

2hours

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