Just watch the same Youtubers as he does so that you can beat him at his own game. Keep in mind that it might take him some time to actually start putting into practice all of the cynical advice he learns. In summary, these redpill guys will teach him how to make sure you always act feminine and submissive, so just act like that to start with, and he'll think he'll have no reason to watch those videos, and possibly stop watching them. Feminine as in don't cancel dates at the last minute, keep looking good, make home cooked meals, and suck his dick (if you're comfortable doing that). If that after you do all that, he stops initiating contact, or making you be the one that comes to his place all the time, don't try to chase him. These Red Pill guys might tell him to send you a text a day if he really likes you, saying 'hi, I hope you have a productive day', in order to keep you interested yet implicitly telling you that they don't want to keep talking to you all day (for fear that you'll lose interest). Just make sure you have other hobbies so that you don't care too much what he does.
if you are the girl who he believes you to be, you have nothing to worry about.
red-pill content isn't as bad as mainstream society makes it out to be, it's just a series of facts, data, studies, anecdotes that build a true picture of the world. historical and religious texts do contain a lot of red-pill material and its beneficial for people to navigate through life, not just for men but women too. how someone chooses to use red-pill information is entirely different and up to them.
in the case of men, they're seeing relationships fall apart, a lot of dumping, cheating, marriages rates dropping, divorce rates growing and all the drama that comes with it which doesn't favor men at all. if I had to guess, I'd say he's watching this stuff so he doesn't get up as another statistic. it's not malicious or anything of that sort.
all you can do is let him know through your actions, you care about him and hold yourselves accountable to that standard. there's no need to tell him you know about red-pill stuff, just let your actions do the speaking. that doesn't mean you need to walk on eggshells all the time but as long as there is mutual trust and understanding, everything should go smoothly.
if you don't feel any comfortable, there's also red-pill content from straight couples and red-pill content from women too which may help.
Worried, maybe- concerned, definitely. I'm only passingly familiar with that subculture, but even I've seen some scary stuff. However, "scary" doesn't necessarily mean "wrong". The simple truth is this: humans are animals. We have instincts that natural and sexual selection bred into us, and those instincts influence our actions, often in really minor and indirect way we don't realize. They do NOT, however, control our actions, unless we let them.
And those instincts aren't always about sexual stuff, either; it's VERY easy to manipulate people into fear, and it's not hard to steer fear into hatred. A lot of subcultures do this, to try to bring more people on board. If you remember specific titles of what you saw, you might want to bring up the issues they discussed with your boyfriend, and see what he has to say. It may be hard to hear without feeling attacked, but do your best to stay objective and hear him out: if it's genuine concern about relations between the sexes, you're probably okay; if it's anger at women in general, you might not be.
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NO... but you should learn the Vibe yourself and hold him to it without giving away that you know what he is doing. If he's going o bitch he needs to follow the leadership too. And, if you really want to blow his mind learn Ephesians 5 which is manual for both Boy and Girl behavior... this will make him choke on the red pill if he's a whiny bitch and complainer type.
u You should both be worried. You are snooping on his phone.
Maybe not. Can you talk to him about it?
Red pill and MGTOW, contrary to popular belief, is the opposition to extreme feminism that has gone on unchecked for just over a decade.. Today it's very common for women that actually hate men, to consider themselves feminists, whom often spread their toxicity all over the internet and especially here in the west. What's worst, they go unchecked because they just call anyone that holds them accountable for their counterintuitive behavior, misogynists'. So as long as women like that exist, and women that are true feminists aren't willing to hold those women posing as feminists accountable, the red pill will also exist.. The world always has a way of balancing it self out, and that is primarily why Red pill and MGTOW, and men like Andrew Tate are so popular amongst men today. Next, there is absolutely a lot of bad advice that comes from the red pill community, and a lot of men aren't able to tell which advice is helpful, and which advice hurtful. However, I believe that what dictates which kind of advice your man puts into use, is the kind of man that he is. I say that because most of the men that look into the red pill from what I can tell, do so because they want to understand women, protect themselves from toxic women, and become better with women overall. Essentially, the red pill is nothing more than a tool, and its not the tool that is good or bad, it's the person.
Hmmm... maybe? Normally, someone who's in a healthy relationship, would never care to search and find about the Redpill and MGTOW. At the same time, probably it would be ok if you are a good partner and he doesn't find patterns that worries him.
If I was you, I would say the following:
"Honey, I found out that you are watching Redpill and MGTOW videos. Is there a reason you started doing it or just out of curiosity? Is there something that I did and that worried you?"
Men, LOVE honesty!
Possibly. I have not browsed that content much but is much like feminist literature was like earlier in society and questioning social structures and generating much the same diatribes.
Feminists were labeled 'men haters'. MGTOW is labeled 'women haters' or misogynists.
As divorce is mostly initiated by women now, there is likely to more questioning of the value of marriage and fathering of children by men. It is hard to see how that cannot be.
If you are wanting a husband and father of your children then you might have a concern.
Should a man be worried if his girlfriend starts studying feminism?
In my opinion, no.
So I view this situation with the same perspective.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with people protecting their own interests.
If you both love and respect each other and treat each other right, these things will never be an issue anyway.
Good! Looks like he's smartening up!
If you're a spoiled, entitled woman who thinks having a vagina entitles you to be wined and dined, you should be VERY worried. If you're a good woman (and very few are, these days), then you should not be worried.
i think incels and mgtows are fucking restarted and probably gay and don’t want to admit it.
BUT. i have watched some of that stuff to understand it. it’s worrying. so perhaps he just wanted to know what that was. as long as he respects women, your ok.
Not unless you're really that bad.
The comical thing about all this red pill talk is it's like stereotypes. No it's not fair. You can't paint everyone with the same paintbrush. But stereotypes don't come from nowhere. Unless you embody a lot of the the red pill claims there isn't a problem.
Nope, but keep snooping through his phone, you will find something to bitch about sooner or later.
Well just hope he won't follow these women haters to the point he's gonna exercise their path towards self destruction and bitterness.
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