I feel unhappy when my girlfriend wears revealing/short clothes while not with me. How to change this?

[Anonymous]

It might be difficult for Western poeple to understand. Our country is conservative and only very few people wear revealing clothes. When someone wears it, kids to old men stare at her like fucking perverts.

I always feel insecure because of this. But she try to dress sexy than all her friends.

[Guy13]

Can you not have a sit down and express how you feel about it. And ask her to please stop. That you would prefer that she do this around you only? If she loves you then she should appreciate your concern for her safety. j.

[Asker]

She's saying I'm controlling and that's unattractive

[Guy13]

She's over the top to me... You are simply trying to convey her importance. I'm not sure how long you have been dating BUT this is a very bad sign. I would be out and let her dress however and attract whomever. I'm conservative though? Decorum in public is big for me.

[IBSiam]

If you live in the west then I have nothing to say. But I support you in this matter.
If she says you are controlling than sorry man. You got nothing to do except bearing it. It means she does not love and respect you enough and she thinks less about your opinion

[Asker]

@IBSiam but isn't it true that it's her right to choose the dress for her?

[Guy13]

@IBSiam Alright Thai guy ;-)

[tzdc21]

Tell her how it makes you feel. And if she still does it, then you need to dump her.

[Anonymous]

Try talking to her about it?

[Asker]

She said I'm trying to control her

[Opinion Owner]

Well, in a way she is right.

[Asker]

Yeah. She is. I'm asking her only to dress according to occasion and place.