How do you know if you are happy or unhappy in a relationship when it’s your first serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

How do you know if you are happy in the relationship and it’s working out right? But you don’t have any experience in relationships?

so the relationship would have ended with someone who knows it’s time to end. Or is it just a normal feeling thinking the relationships are hard work?

[watercolor_lions]

It's really hard to know when it's your first one.

Being in a successful relationship really isn't much different than finding the ultimate best friend, whom you're attracted to sexually. Can you trust this person with everything? Do you absolutely love being with them (my husband and I are practically inseparable)? Are they your first pick for who to call when shit goes down?

I wish I'd made it simple for myself and simply looked to marry my best friend. Because that is what a relationship is supposed to be. Not much else. It's not as complicated as I thought it was before. A best friend (who you get along with VERY well) and who you want to have sex with.

[slatyb]

How do you know if you like some food you are trying?

How do you feel? Are you happy to see them? Are you more relaxed with them or without them?

[Guy13]

YOur instincts and heart will notify you when things are doing well or badly. Be aware of what self is saying.

[Asker]

Okay, do you have a relationship?

[Guy13]

Yes, I have had a few and am thinking about venturing into a serious one...

[Akam93]

I wish I was her. :(

[Asker]

@Akam93 why?

[inhua]

your parents' relationship should be the example to follow.

this is how you would know whether you are happy or unhappy in a relationship.

[boggboss]

You should know if your happy or if u want more lol

[Asker]

So if I’m feeling up happy that’s a sign to end it or try work on it?

[boggboss]

Then work at why you are unhappy

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[boggboss]

Communication is key for a relationship to work is what u want realistic

[MountAverage]

The same way you know if you are happy or unhappy about anything else in life. You either feel happy or unhappy. That's really all there is to it.