Why don't they just end their current relationship if they are not happy anymore and start looking for something that makes them happier at the end of the day?
I've learned that a lot women can be very selfish and immature. Most women today won't think about how their actions affect others, as long as they are getting what they want. So as men, don't be so naive. Most women today talk to multiple different men at a time because they can get different needs met by different men. These women will never be satisfied in a relationship with one person because they've conditioned themselves to be satisfied by multiple men, meanwhile no one person can ever live up to what several different men do. So dont be that guy entertaining those kinds of women. Be the man thats leveled himself up so you have options. Also, we've gotta do a better job collectively of vetting women before we get into relationships with them, because a lot of them today have no morals or values that guide their decisions. You don't want those women fellas. They are for the streets, they just don't realize it most of the time. Lastly, watch how they move fellas. Youd be surprised how easy it is to identify women that are for the streets just be watching their behaivior, and understanding how they think. Quality women have a different vibe entirely.
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It's not that they like variety they usually have a more high value male that they have on the side and hoping to slide in as the main squeeze. Soon as that happens the guy who is in their life is history. He was always just there to provide and keep it warm until she found the right person.
When i was in that situation, i wasn't insecure nor afraid to be alone like most say. I just didn't want to start over from scratch unless I was making the right decision. I was going to make sure i had the better option on lock first. I didn't need to cheat or anything to know the better option. I just needed to continue getting to know him platonically to make sure I was going the right way of letting go of what I had. The dude wasn't doing his job as a boyfriend so i didn't really give a damn anymore myself. And i always made sure to tell the guy “someone who may be better suited for me has come along”. I just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking on it because we dont seem to be the right fit. Dudes couldve let me go then but nah they always say “lets just try to make things work.” Then I’d end up staying with them to avoid hurting them further but i’d just end up hurting myself. Now idgaf. They can go and get over it
You mean cheating? Cause people can be quite selfish, they want to keep their current relationship as a backup in case the person they're seeing in the side falls through. It's all about a lack of self control and putting pleasure before their relationship.
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Some women are insecure and can’t stand to be alone and this way they are good.
Others are like hmm 🤔. which one ☝️ do I like best. How much can I get out this new boy…I know what current gives me. This is going to be fun 🤩
Because some of them are so insecure and selfish they look to “line a guy up” and determine if he’s a better pick before they conveniently jump ship. It’s also the ego and attention of having more than one man interested that turns them on.
Not to say all women are like this. But I had the displeasure of dealing with this complete bullshit once or twice when I was younger. I’ve both gotten inappropriate attention from taken women (that I wasn’t even looking for) and had a girl use me as a “placeholder” when something else came along.
This is just cheating even if these women didn’t do anything physical with the new guy she met yet. Once they start spending one on one time with the other guy, get in deeper conversations and sharing a “love” vibe they are fucking cheating and have no respect their bfs/husbands. Plain and simple. But this is the convenient mental gymnastic bs some women do to protect their own egos.
As for me there have been times I felt attracted to other women during relationships but I sure as hell didn’t indulge it nor line up the other girl when I found it was time to call it quits on my girlfriend.
Not to say it’s impossible for men to do this crap. A very small minority of them do. I a GAG story about a woman who was engaged but her fiancé was studying abroad to finish up a doctoral program. While this was going his father passed away and he ended up getting into a 6 month relationship with another woman for comfort/companionship. Although his circumstances were horrible it didn’t justify what he did.
But this is more rare than vice versa. This is much more common with young women. They tend to think the grass is always greener on the other side.
A female friend once told me that most women's default setting is to look for another boat to sail next to them before jumpin off their current boat.
It's horrible, but it's anthropological, some things aren't worth getting angry about. It is what it is. Work around it and set life up in your favour, that's the duty of every man. Let others complain but not you,
"Why are men horny and territorial"
"Why are women moody on their periods"
"Why does body count matter to men"
"Why does a man's wealth matter to women"
"Why does the sun rise in the morning and the stars come out at night"
Let others argue and grow vex about the way this planet was designed, not you. Plot a path to your success despite the adversities.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
What's a situatonship?
If it's what I presume, it's because they are exploring their options. In my opinion completely wrong, but this is, in my experience, mostly a guy thing: cheating behind their fiance's or girlfriend's back because they really aren't ready to commit or because they are always searching for something 'better'.
I have a romantic partner who cuts himself and threaten suicide each time I try to end things. So I've always been very honest with you that he is not what I want and I will not close myself off to the possiblitly of other relationships. He his so, I don't know if the word is afraid or vulnerable, that he'd rather have me that way then not have me at all. So I go on about my business while trying to get away from this guy and letting him down lightly. Easing out of the relationship
Generally because they are afraid they will get killed 😂😂 or maybe that’s just me!.
But probably a similar reason, not wanting to cause hurt to anyone so sacrificing their own freedom.Why do some men? Seriously, we are not that different.
They get attached emotionally and don’t know what they want
Most rather stay where they’re at instead of being alone. For others, I don’t know 🤷♀️ Maybe financial issue if they’re living with said partner. Plus kids, if they have any.
Because they only care about them selves and what they gain. Life's so short not to be honest est
Because they want the best of both worlds its just cheating many people do it unfortunately
Insecurity. There are a lot of women who can't handle the thought of being alone.
insecurity and can't picture themselves being alone
Selfish narcissism
Dumbest thing I've ever heard.
Same reasons guys do the exact same thing.
because they can
Because they don't want to be alone.
They are considered
I agree with Avicenna
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