What is wrong with me?

[artsy_dragon]

I'm back with another 'serious life' question guys 😂

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years now. We live together in a small studio flat/apartment so yes it's cramped but we have got by fine so far.

We've not had sex in 2 weeks. Yes there has been a lot of stress and we gave both been ill but that hasn't stopped us in the past. I feel like I've done something wrong or something is up. When I Ask him what's wrong, he yells at me.

I can't give him space right now and I've been signed off work and university due to stress, its a long story. I've also hurt my ankle slipping on ice the other day so I can't go anywhere. by the way my ankle is fine, I am resting it. Its not swollen or anything. I am just using the RICE method 😁

We were meant to watch ice cream, watch a movie and cuddle. I said to do it early (like 11pm) as I knew he was getting tired but he blanked me. Its now 1am. He ate loads of pizza an hour ago and it made him feel sick. This sounds ridiculous. I feel rejected. I would talk to him but he is asleep rn.

I have no idea wtf this post is. Maybe overreacting? Hormones? I shaved and motorised in front of him and he ignored me. Oh yeah 11pm is early for us as our sleeping pattern is backwards haha. We normally have ice cream at 2am 🙃😂

What the f is wrong with me?

[SnowedIn]

Artsy, nothing is wrong with you. Seriously. There's lots of shit going on and most of it sounds crappy and I'm really sorry for that but nothing is wrong with you. I say that to validate you and help you cut yourself some slack. You're allowed shitty days and experiences.

You didn't ask for advice but I wanted to offer a little. First and foremost take care of that ankle. Simultaneously, try to find some truce with your partner. Maybe whatever it is isn't a quick fix but perhaps some sort of detente until he's more able to communicate without yelling.

I'm really sorry this is all going on.

But, again, nothing wrong with you.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[UniquelyBasic]

You seem to have a lot of things going on in your life. Maybe a little too much to be having a relationship but if youve been together for 5 years then obviously something is working well enough.

[Charlesbrandonf]

Timing is wrong. Not yours not his. I avoided my girlfriend when I needed space. Then I bang for 3 hours straight, and three to four times in a day for straight week. It’s just my mind wasn’t there for sex. Even if I didn’t it wouldn’t be a good session. So I’d rather ask her time and go for multiple times.

[Fleet7635]

Sounds like a normal pretty normal drained and ran down relationship phase and it will pass but I would have ended it when you shaved lol

[Fleet7635]

Can always follow me back if you want to chat anytime about whatever you want to 😀

[artsy_dragon]

Whats that meant to mean? I shave once a month because he called me a hairy gorilla. I haven't saved in 2 months before last night as I tried to cut my self with the razor

[Fleet7635]

I meant his behavior as far as just possibly being checked out emotionally and not responding to watching you shave and not being turned on by that. But he shouldn’t be shot talking you period and he needs to get the fuck over it because you’re struggling and you need him to step up