Do you agree with this video that 90% of men will be invisible in 5 years?

[Anonymous]

And polymorphous relationship will become the norm with women more likely to form marriages similar to this with high, value men.

Yes

No

[MCheetah]

No. Because 90% of men are already invisible to modern (Western) women, nowadays. The numbers don't lie.

The way for men to "win" nowadays is to stop playing a game rigged against you from the very start. Let's not forget; even Chads pay child support, nowadays!

If you find you a "unicorn" woman (like I did, once), then sure, go ahead and love her fully. Just don't marry her.

90% of us men won't find that anyway though; so don't waste life on something that is statistically unlikely. Women nowadays suck, and men nowadays continue to let them by being simps, cucks, and paypigs; thus making them the worse of the two genders.

In other words: Better to be alone and free, than married as a slave. (Hell, this could apply to both genders, even.)

[Pohjolan]

Historically 2/3 of men failed to procreate so we are returning to a paleo mating culture.
However I think 90% is a exaggeration.
The top 70-90% should still be a catch for the less than average 50% of women.

[MrOracle]

Roughly 80% of men ALREADY ARE invisible to most women*. And, yes, it's only getting worse, but we're not far from this already.

*This means that men are invisible SEXUALLY/ROMANTICALLY. And if you're a woman who doesn't believe this is true, I'd be happy to prove it to you.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm a guy who doesn't believe it.

Everywhere I've been, even the ugliest, fattest, worst personality guys with addictions, low incomes, no talents, irresponsible addittudes, and low IQs (the guys at the very bottom of the dating pool) are in relationships.

They are married, they have kids, many are happy.

If anything, standards have dropped significantly, women are more slutty, people are less scared of stds or unplanned pregnancies, people aren't willing to wait for sex anymore, people are having kids as teens more, people are settling way more.

[MrOracle]

@TheSpaceGnome "Everywhere I've been, even the ugliest, fattest, worst personality guys with addictions, low incomes, no talents, irresponsible addittudes, and low IQs (the guys at the very bottom of the dating pool) are in relationships."

Where have you been? I'm talking about western countries - North America, Europe, Australia, etc.

And, yes, those guys can attract women who are 1s, 2s, and 3s who have few options. But I'm talking about the MAJORITY of men, who are AVERAGE.



Roughly 68% (over 2/3) of all people are a 5 or a 6. If we go out one step, 95% of people are between a 4 and a 7. These are the people I'm talking about - the AVERAGE people, who are the great masses. Yes, there are dirtbags, but those are 1-3s, and they're relatively rare. Let's talk about the MAJORITY.

Is it unreasonable for a man who is a 5 to expect a woman who is a 5? But women who are 5s mostly think they're 8.5s and want men who are 9s and above, and never even glance at men who are 5s and are OFFENDED by the suggestion that they should date a 5.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I've only been to places in the US.

Your graph is impossible to interpret, but I suspect based on your opinion, that its inaccurate.

I don't use the 1-10 thing because I've called "10"s a 1, it really depends on preferences. but people tend to date people of similar attractiveness.

Your "5's can't date 5s" remark however I can say is definitely false, as it at least is saying that a guy who as good looking as the woman he picks, can't get her, and nah dude, thats super common, in fact its the most common outcome actually, more common than anything else, even more common than staying single.

Most men in western countries in general though are pretty ugly because its seen as "manly" to not have basic hygeine and self healthcare standards. "Be tough" they say, "be broken and stand up", "destroy yourself and laugh about it like you're a bulletproof god." Tough guy "alpha male" mentality creates some pretty ugly looking dudes, whether pot bellied or ripped. But most of them are still married or have a girlfriend by mid 20s at the latest.

The "attractive" men are usually refered to as "girly" or "soyboys", but popstar boy bands in the west and eastern culture in general have shown that most women adore that type over the balding rugged fat drunken slob (majority of husbands), or the greasy balding body builder with buldging veins and a micropenis.

Regardless ugly or not, most people date, get laid, have kids, get married, etc. Most people also divorce though.

I do not think people in general are getting more picky, I think they are getting less picky, less patient, and its causing a divorce epidemic.

[MrOracle]

@TheSpaceGnome Divorce is caused because women are picking men based on their looks, or based on "fun/excitement" (meaning, they're picking party guys or bad boys who are dangerous, because danger seems exciting), rather than picking men based on their morals, values, and life-goals. A few relationships succeed because the guy has good morals and values anyway, but most of the guys women pick do not, so most marriages are failing. Women are being picky, but for the wrong traits. They'll pick a hot guy over a moral guy 95% of the time, and then things don't last.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The moral guy IS the rare guy though, most men, or rather most people, are dumb party goers with shitty morals, values, and life goals.

You don't often see the smart guys get picked, even though they are rare so you would expect high demand. Most women tend to prefer the average boring idiot guy because most women are average, boring, and dumb.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I agree they are picking the wrong traits, but those women are also being those same wrong traits.

[Asker]

@TheSpaceGnome What do you think about recent data that came out which shows 63% of young men under the age of 30 are single?

[GOOSEBOY78]

lol no. all you gen Y/Z have learned nothing from gen X.

i know what your about to say: all gen x were c*nts all they did was hit us...

did they? no they didn't. your a molly coddled adult expecting everyone to love and accept you. sorry to burst you bubble BUT,

think how the other people are going to feel when they have to fight for one persons affection let alone mutiple people. espcially as polygamious relationships are illegal in many countries. as too many chances for incest and birth defects.

men won't be invisible to women when there's chores to do.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I would say that maybe polymorous relationships could be a bit more common or accepted to some degree. But most people only have one partner due to it being very hard to manage multiple partners in the same relationship. Or just because being poly isn't for them.

[BeMuse]

Nope. If anything, women have become more self-centered and selfish with social media in the world. There is a plague of narcissism that is running rampant in the world today. No way in hell women would be willing to share a man these days. They want to be the center of the entire fucking world.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Not going to watch the video but I think 90% of men are already invisible. That's right... all you chicks out there are fucking the same 10% of men if the percentage is even that high.

[slatyb]

A large majority of women prefer not to share. If they wanted to be part of a polygamous family, they would be doing it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The 3 "facts" he opens with are false, so there isn't a point to watching the rest of the video.

[LiamJHayden]

Whiny soy boys might be.

[Anonymous]

No, that is ridiculous.

[Asker]

Nothing is ridiculous when hypergamy goes unchecked.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous I think there is a distinct reality. I currently have multiple women all happy to share me. Women want the top tier guys and reality is there's not enough to go around. Women are already sharing the top men, the only difference is it may be more accepting in next 5 years.

[Anonymous]

Maybe not five but definitely in 15-20

[Opinion Owner]

Its already like this right now though in Big cities

[Anonymous]

Absolutely.