My ex boyfriend and I broke up today?

[Anonymous]

he wasn’t the best boyfriend, he followed a bunch of bikini girls, liked all their pictures, and DMed a bunch of them telling them they are pretty or beautiful or gorgeous. i hated it so the past two years i’ve complained to him about it and asked why he did it. theses past few months have been really bad. he’s been getting drunk with his friends and then call me and say the most horrific things to me. i’m sad about the break up but i’m also really relived that i don’t have to deal with him anymore. one thing that i’m now scared of is he has told me that our seggs life is boring. i asked him why and he said bc i’m too quiet, that i don’t do anything exciting. at the beginning of the relationship i could 100% agree on. he was my first seggs partner so i didn’t know anything. as the years gone by i thought i was doing better. i moan when we do have seggs, i’m not sure if i’m not loud enough I don't know but he didn’t tell me. all he said was i’m too quiet. he has said it many times that now im scared to have seggs with anyone else bc i don’t want them to tell me our seggs life is boring. and what makes it all worse is i’m 31 years young female and my time to have kids is getting shorter and i’m scared i won’t find anyone.

[AviatorTom]

Congratulations for dumping someone who doesn't respect you. That kind of relationship would never work.

Now, go find yourself a guy who respects you for who and what you are. Best of luck!

[Asker]

i feel like i’m too old to find someone now and have children 😢

[AviatorTom]

You're 31 ... young, and plenty of time to find someone and have children

[Asker]

i’m scared to find someone. i’m scared bc this boy planted in my head that having seggs with me is boring

[Summeroflove]

Seems he used you for sex. Honestly he did you a favor by leaving

[Asker]

it’s so hard to believe that’s all he used me for. we were together for so long and he even purposed in May. but I don't know. he was really confusing

[Summeroflove]

Well all he did was complain about sex and seems it’s all he wanted

[Asker]

yes i wonder if that’s all he wanted. but oh well. what made me said too is he always told me that guys look for girls who are not sluts and who have not been damaged or whatever, yet he always mad me feel bad for not being good.

[Summeroflove]

There’s no telling. Maybe he had some good in him but he was still using you if that’s all he cared about

[Summeroflove]

Well…. If you don’t give a man sex and he leaves. That’s a good way to rule people out.

I say save yourself until marriage

[Summeroflove]

He’s way too obsessed with sex that’s for sure

[whorable]

just be glad you’re out of there with no ties. it’s better this way.. and you’re never 2 old and don’t feel like you have to change or pretend your moans and noises bc of his jack ass

[Guy13]

You did the right thing !! And you are fortunate to do it so young. Happy New Year ahead !!!

[driven159]

31 is still young and find someone that can teach you sex and is a good communicator